BUSINESS ETIQUETTE. Presented by Dr. Amelia F. Zwecher.

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1 BUSINESS ETIQUETTE Presented by Dr. Amelia F. Zwecher 1

2 WORKSHOP DESCRIPTION Etiquette is a set of unwritten rules that apply to social situations, professional workplaces and relationships. In the business world, good business etiquette means that you act professionally and exercise proper manners when engaging with others in your profession. Good business etiquette is a valuable skill-set that will make you stand out from others, enhance your chances at success and help you land that dream job. 2

3 ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING Attitude determines the level of our potential, intensity of our activity, and predicts the quality of the results we achieve. IF WE WANT TO RECEIVE THE AWARDS THE FUTURE HOLDS FOR US, THEN WE MUST MAINTAIN TOTAL CONTROL OVER OUR ATTITUDE. 3

4 REFLECTION EXERCISE: ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING Instructions: Circle attitudes (useless and useful) you often portray or believed to portray by others. Then note one attitude that you aim to achieve. Useless attitudes (negative): Angry, sarcastic, impatient, bored, disrespectful, conceited, pessimistic, anxious, rude, suspicious, vengeful, afraid, self-conscious, mocking, and embarrassed Useful attitudes (positive): Warm, enthusiastic, confident, supportive, relaxed, obliging, curious, resourceful, comfortable, helpful, engaging, laid back, patient, welcoming, cheery, and interested The attitude I aim to achieve: How will I achieve this: 4

5 TWO VOLUNTEERS NEEDED 5

6 When it comes to selling either your personal charms or professional abilities, body language talks loudest of all 6

7 NEGATIVE BODY LANGUAGE Lack of eye contact Mumbling Poor pronunciation Extraneous body movements that do not positively support what you are saying Poor posture Hiding your hands and palms Closed body postures (folded arms) Standing with one hand on your hip Putting both hands in your pockets Unblinking stare and the same facial expression (If looks could kill) Excessive smiling Excessive head bobbing 7

8 CREATE A POSITIVE VOCAL IMAGE Every day, in both your business and professional life, you are being judged by the sound of your voice. From the boardroom to the podium to the classroom and to the telephone. You are judged, labeled, and categorized by the sound of your voice. USE OPTIMAL VOLUME 8

9 CREATE A POSITIVE VOCAL IMAGE Pace yourself Speak with optimal volume Articulate clearly Pause when appropriate** Use expressions Avoid filler words Avoid sloppy words Avoid self commenting and apologies Use thoughtful and considerate words Business environment= use a deeper voice 9

10 GREETINGS AND HANDSHAKES Standup Smile and make eye contact State your greeting clearly using names Shake hands** Internationally accepted: Cheek kiss and bowing When to shake hands: 1. Introducing others and saying goodbye 2. Someone comes into your home or office 3. When meeting someone! 4. When congratulating someone 10

11 RAPPORT AND HOW TO BUILD IT Rapport is the ability to connect with others in a positive way Rapport involves being able to see eye-to-eye with other people, connecting with them on their wave length When you have rapport, each of you brings something to the interaction 1. Attentiveness 2. Warmth 3. Sense of humor You have natural rapport with others when you have something in common with them 11

12 RAPPORT AND HOW TO BUILD IT Quick ways to build rapport: Take a genuine interest in getting to know what is important to the other person. Try to understand them. Pick up on keywords, favorite phrases, and ways of speaking. Then build them subtly in your conversation. Notice how someone likes to handle conversation- lots of detail or the big picture? Adopt a similar stance: body language, gestures, voice tone, and speed 12

13 EXERCISE: THE FOUR UNIVERSAL SOCIAL GIFTS What would you say to someone in a conversation to achieve the following social gifts/goals?: Appreciation: Connection: Elevation: Enlightenment: 13

14 BASIC CONVERSATION PRINCIPLES Do ask open-ended questions instead of close-ended questions Good conversation allows both individuals to speak Keep the tone and content of the conversation light until you find a topic you are both interested in GIVE A SINCERE COMPLIMENT Use the word YOU more than I Avoid complaining about your problems- the most boring topic Know a little bit about a lot of things- READ THE NEWSPAPER Avoid talking while you are chewing or drinking Use detail, precise descriptions, colorful adjectives END A CONVERSATION ON A POSITIVE NOTE 14

15 GIVING AND RECEIVING COMPLIMENTS Giving Compliments: One of the easiest way to start a conversation Personal achievements of talents are the safest qualities to compliment someone on when you have your first meeting Use verbs such as admire, appreciate, valuable, superb, knowledgeable Select something that you can truly support and provide details about what you liked Sincere compliments are powerful Receiving Compliments: Accept all graciously Do not parrot back compliments Responses: Thank you, you noticed, how kind of you, nice 15

16 10 POWERFUL BODY LANGUAGE TIPS FOR EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION To boost your confidence, assume a power pose To connect instantly with someone, shake hands To stimulate good feelings, smile To show agreement, mirror expressions and postures To improve speech, use your hands To sound authoritative, keep your voice down 16

17 ACCEPTABLE AND UNACCEPTABLE CONVERSATIONS TOPICS Acceptable conversation topics: How do you spend your days? This is a lovely city. Please tell me about it. Your travels sound exciting. Which country was your favorite? Your profession is unique. How did you happen to choose it? Unacceptable conversation topics**: What do you do? How much did that cost? Are you married? How old are you? Is that a high paying job? Where do you buy your clothes? Where are you from? Do you go to church? 17

18 CELL PHONE/SMART PHONE ETIQUETTE IN PUBLIC Lower your voice when speaking in public Respect personal space Respect fellow workers Don t talk about personal and professional problems, finances, or health issues Avoid taking calls when you are engaged in a face-to-face conversation Avoid texting during face-to-face conversations 18

19 CELL PHONE/SMART PHONE ETIQUETTE IN PUBLIC Check your volume Cell phones should be kept off of the conference room table when attending a meeting Do not light up your phone s screen in a meeting, movie, or cultural event once it has commenced When dining in a restaurant, do not put your phone on the table Use judgment before taking pictures Inform others if you are expecting a call prior to the start of dinner or a meeting 19

20 DOS AND DON TS Dos: Use the subject line to inform Treat s like business letters Always include salutation List recipients of an alphabetically or according to hierarchy Beware of reply all Send attachments on with permission Respond to s in a timely manner (same day at minimum) Always proof your before you send it 20

21 DOS AND DON TS Don'ts: Do not shout Skip the fancy decorations Avoid sarcasm or subtle humor unless you know the recipient well enough that you know he/she will understand No is private Do not use to reply to correspondence or invitations that were not sent by or did not supply an address 21

22 THANK YOU NOTES Thanking people is our way of respecting them by showing appreciation. Not thanking a person makes us appear inconsiderate and unappreciative. When to thank others with a note (preferably handwritten): Receipt of a gift Guest to their home Favors Meals Interview Appreciation for time spent with you 22

23 IMPRESSION MANAGEMENT- YOUR BUSINESS WARDROBE A Formula: Attractive, Affordable, Appropriate, and Assured Dos: Know the dress code of your company Be cautious and avoid extremes Suitability is not gender based Keep jewelry to a minimum Wear good quality clothing 23

24 IMPRESSION MANAGEMENT- YOUR BUSINESS WARDROBE Don ts: Make light of your attire in the business arena Sabotage your chances of success by dressing carelessly Wear inappropriate skirts, such as mini or tight/fitted skirts Dress seductively by wearing a low-cut top or dress Casual Friday - overrule your conservative dress if you re meeting with a client 24

25 TAKEAWAYS 25