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1 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 1 How do other people solve problems? The 5 P s in Problem Solving *prob lem: a source of perplexity, distress, or vexation *solve: to find a solution, explanation, or answer for How do you currently solve problems? What would you hope to do differently with a problem solving method? What can happen if you DON T have an effective problem solving method? You ignore problems because you don t know how to make a decision. You create more problems trying to solve the first one. You make decisions based on only PART of the information. You may not remember from time to time why you made previous decisions or how you came to an answer. Your problem can get worse when you keep trying the same thing that doesn t work. You create more stress for yourself. Can you relate to any of this? Name one problem in your life that resulted in one of the ways listed above.

3 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 3 Why do YOU need a problem solving method? Pick 4 of the reasons from the previous page that give you a clue why learning the 5 P s might be important for YOU. List them in column 1. For each one, answer the question in column 2. I want to learn the 5 P s This is why because examples Forward movement Vision 1 A lot of time I stay stuck in a problem b/c I can t see through all the junk to find a way out! I seem to have a lot of problems that relate, so maybe there is a bigger problem I need to solve? Okay, so you ve established that it might not be so awful to have a way to deal with all the problems and the drama that come up in every day life. So now it s time to talk about this 5 P s stuff. What is it anyway? The first step in effective Problem Solving is defining the Problem drilling it down to its purest form leaving no doubt what the problem REALLY is. A fuzzy problem is a problem that won t get solved quickly. To make the problem less fuzzy and more clear, ask these questions What is the What is the REAL Is that really the Are you sure? Go back through this list of questions as many times as necessary until you have clearly and briefly defined the problem until you can answer YES! to the last question Are you sure?

4 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 4 The 5 P s of Problem Solving will help you form a plan. Pattern, Purpose, Perception, Partnership, Prosperity = Plan NEXT TIME YOU HAVE A PROBLEM TAKE FIVE TO FIND A SOLUTION.

5 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 5 Pattern and Purpose *pat tern: frequent or widespread incidence 1. Pattern When does the problem occur? When does it not occur? What happens right before the problem comes up? Begin to notice exactly when the problem comes up and when it doesn t. What happens right before the problem happens that is DIFFERENT from other times when it doesn t happen? These are great clues! *pur pose: something set up as an object or end to be attained 2. Purpose What does the problem accomplish? What are the benefits of the What would be different if the problem didn t exist? Often times a problem keeps on being a problem because it is actually serving a purpose or accomplishing something. That sounds weird, but why else would it keep happening? You will find clues to the problem when you look at the problem a different way What are actually some of the benefits of the problem and for who? Another way to look at the problem from a different angle is to see how things would be different if the problem didn t exist.

6 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 6 Perception and Partnership *per cep tio n: a mental image 3. Perception Who sees it as a Who else? Who doesn t see it as a Who else? Who actually sees it as a Remember that everyone has a unique perspective in life. When you notice who actually sees it as a problem and who doesn t, you will get clues about a useful plan for solving the problem! *part ner ship : one associated with another especially in an action 4. Partnership Who is NOT involved that needs to be? Who is involved that does not need to be? Often times there are too many opinions and advice floating around the problem. Are the right people involved? The right people are the people who can actually affect the problem in a positive way not just gossip and complain about it!

7 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 7 Prosperity *pro s per i ty: the condition of being successful or thriving 5. Prosperity (prosperity = happiness/success) How does it keep you from being happy? How does it keep others from being happy? How does it keep your workplace from working? When you can see how the problem keeps you and others from being happy and prosperous, it s a great clue for change! Because you can then look at the other side of the coin If keeps me (or others) from being happy, then would make me happy! If keeps my workplace form working, then would make it work! The answers to these 5 topics hold the solutions to the problem or the PLAN for the problem. Can you see HOW the answers to your questions hold clues to solving the Can you look at these answers and come up with a plan for a problem of your own? (For examples of how to do the following exercises, see pages 15-18) *Based on the Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary

8 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 8 Let s Solve a Problem! Defining the Problem Pick a current problem in your PERSONAL life. The problem might be at school, at home, or within What is the What is the REAL Is that really the Are you sure? Go back through this list of questions as many times as necessary until you have clearly and concisely defined the problem until you can answer YES! to the last question, Are you sure? Once you are sure write the problem in one clear sentence below. Now go to the next page and make a plan.

9 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 9 Clues to the problem The personal problem for me is When does the problem occur? Pattern Purpose Perception Partnership Prosperity When does What does Who sees it it not the problem as a occur? accomplish? What are the benefits of the Who doesn t see it as a Who is NOT involved that needs to be? Who IS involved that doesn t need to be? How does it affect your happiness and/or the happiness of others? Plan 1 Plan 2 Plan 3

10 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 10 Solving the problem Are one or more of these plans useful for you? If YES, which plan or plans are useful? What makes it useful? If NO, which plan (or plans) are not useful? What makes it NOT useful? Then can you come up with at least one plan that is useful for you? Circle one.. YES NO If you cannot find any useful plans, are you actually benefiting from the problem in some way and that s why you do not wish to solve it right now? Be honest with yourself It s okay if you are not ready just remember the power to choose lies within you when you are ready to move forward.

11 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 11 Let s Solve Another Problem! Defining the Problem Pick a current problem at WORK or imagine a problem that might come up in the job you hope to get soon. What is the What is the REAL Is that really the Are you sure? Go back through this list of questions as many times as necessary until you have clearly and concisely defined the problem until you can answer YES! to the last question, Are you sure? Once you are sure, write the problem in one clear sentence below. Now go to the next page and make a plan.

12 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 12 Clues to the problem The problem at work for me is When does the problem occur? Pattern Purpose Perception Partnership Prosperity When does What does Who sees it it not the problem as a occur? accomplish? What are the benefits of the Who doesn t see it as a Who is NOT involved that needs to be? Who IS involved that doesn t need to be? How does it affect your happiness and/or the happiness of others? Plan 1 Plan 2 Plan 3

13 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 13 Solving the problem Are one or more of these plans useful for you? If YES, which plan or plans are useful? What makes it useful? If NO, which plan (or plans) are not useful? What makes it NOT useful? Then can you come up with at least one plan that is useful for you? Circle one.. YES NO If you cannot find any useful plans, are you actually benefiting from the problem in some way and that s why you do not wish to solve it right now? Be honest with yourself It s okay if you are not ready just remember the power to choose lies within you when you are ready to move forward.

14 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 14 What have you learned about making a Plan for a Problem? What have you learned about the Power of Problem Solving today? How does your power to problem solve affect your work? How does your power to problem solve affect your family? How does your power to problem solve affect your future? What will you do differently now? Top 6 Questions to begin Problem Solving. 1. Have you clearly, briefly defined the 2. When does the problem happen and NOT happen? 3. What purpose does the problem serve? (What does it accomplish?) 4. Who sees it as a problem and who DOESN T? 5. Who should be involved and who should NOT? 6. How is it affecting happiness/success?

15 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 15 The 5 P s in Problem Solving EXAMPLES FOR YOUR REFERENCE (PGS 15-18) Let s Solve a personal Problem! Defining the Problem What is the My parents keep trying to tell me who my friends should be, and they won t let me hang out with the people I like. What is the REAL I should be able to choose my own friends but my parents don t get it. Is that really the YES! Are you sure? Well, I guess part of the problem is I ve gotten in some trouble with my friends Like last week a cop had to drive me home b/c the guy I was riding with got picked up for drinking But I still don t think my parents should be allowed to tell me who my friends can and cannot be! It s a free country! (Go Back and keep trying until the problem is clear and true ) TRY AGAIN What is the I got into some trouble with this new guy I ve been hanging out with. What is the REAL It s sort of affecting my grades and I ve been absent from work a lot lately b/c I call in sick to hang out. Is that really the YES! Are you sure? Yea. I ve been spending time with him and things aren t going so well right now. I stay in trouble at home, at work, and at school Go back through this list of questions as many times as necessary until you have clearly and concisely defined the problem until you can answer YES! to the last question, Are you sure? Once you are sure, write the problem in one clear sentence below. I ve been having a hard time every since he moved here and we started hanging out.

16 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 16 Clues to the Problem The personal problem for me is I ve been having a hard time and getting in a lot of trouble lately. When does the problem occur? When I hang out with my new friend who just moved here. Pattern Purpose Perception Partnership Prosperity When does it not occur? Duh. When I m not with him. What does the problem accomplish? When he gets in trouble, he can blame it on me or have someone to get in trouble with him. Maybe it makes him feel better? What are the benefits of the 1. When I go along with what he s doing, it gives him an excuse to keep doing it. Sometimes I even egg him on 2. Also, when I am grounded I can blame my parents that I can t hang out. Who sees it as a My parents, my teachers, my principal, my school counselor I guess me. Who doesn t see it as a My friend doesn t think it s a big deal. Who is NOT involved that needs to be? I won t really let my parents get involved until they have to get me out of a bad situation. I won t talk to them about it. I guess it might help them understand? Who IS involved that doesn t need to be? My brother He keeps ratting me out! How does it affect your happiness and/or the happiness of others? I have fun when I hang out with this guy, b/c he is really funny and doesn t care what people think. I like that. But I am unhappy most of the time b/c I stay grounded for my grades and all the other junk that happens! Plan 1 Plan 2 Plan 3 Stop hanging out with him totally but that sucks because he is new and doesn t have any friends besides me. Stop acting like he is so cool when he does things that get us in trouble. Just let him know it s not that cool Keep doing stuff with him and just see how bad it gets!

17 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 17 Let s Solve a Problem at work! Defining the Problem What is the I keep getting in trouble at work for messing up customer orders in the warehouse. The customer gets the wrong product, then calls and complains. What is the REAL I m about to get fired if I don t fix it. Is that really the YES! Are you sure? Yes. It s a problem! But I double-check the information every time and no one believes me! Go back through this list of questions as many times as necessary until you have clearly and concisely defined the problem until you can answer YES! to the last question, Are you sure? Once you are sure, write the problem in one clear sentence below. The customers are getting the wrong product and I am getting blamed for it..

18 The 5 P s in Problem Solving 18 Clue to the problem The work problem for me is The customers are getting the wrong product and I am getting blamed for it. When does the problem occur? When I ship to customers in the certain states. (Arkansas, Missouri, and Kansas) Pattern Purpose Perception Partnership Prosperity When does What does Who sees it it not the problem as a occur? accomplish? When I ship to any other customer in states other than those three things seem to work just fine. It makes the customer mad! What are the benefits of the 1. The freight company benefits b/c the customer ships the order back at my company s expense. 2. I get a chance to do some research and show my boss that I am a good employee. I do!. My boss does. The customer does. Who doesn t see it as a Nobody I can think of. Who is NOT involved that needs to be? Our computer guy might need to look at the customer files to see why these three states are messed up when it comes to products. The customer service agent who takes the order. Who IS involved that doesn t need to be? All the other warehouse guys have something to say about it. One of my friends keeps telling me to just quit if they won t believe me. How does it affect your happiness? The company s success? It affects me personally b/c I need this job and the wrong shipments make me look bad. It affects the customer b/c they are not getting what they ordered. It affects the company b/c maybe these customers will get tired of it and buy their product somewhere else! Plan 1 Plan 2 Plan 3 Tell my boss what I ve noticed about the wrong shipments to three specific states and see if that might help us figure out what s going on. Go talk directly to the customer service agent and see if she can look in her computer screen to see what the error is for customers in those states Get defensive and complain b/c it s not really my fault but no one listens to me b/c I m a teenager!

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