3 Secrets To Making Him Fall In Love All Over Again

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1 3 Secrets To Making Him Fall In Love All Over Again

2 Hi, I m Leigha and I m so happy you re here! If you re experiencing the pain and frustration of your man pulling away and withdrawing, I know how you feel. I m here to help you quickly turn your relationship around and get everything you really want time, love, attention, affection, tenderness, romance and lifelong commitment without having to ask for it! Is it even possible? Can you really bring him back and make him fall in love all over again? I have women asking me everyday to help them get their man back. Every situation is different, but there s one thing I know for sure 99% of men ALWAYS come back. He may not come back next week, or next month even - But he ll be back. I ve seen it happen over and over again and I ve experienced it myself. I have clients who ve re- attracted their man back. I can t promise you your man back but I can promise you this >>> I believe the Tools and Method I learned and now coach - are your best shot at recreating a loving relationship with your man or with a new man you haven t met yet. You re going to be creating a new set point for love! Right now you might be saying, But Leigha, I don t want another man! I just want my man back.

3 I know. Trust me. This is part of the plan. Being open to getting swept up off your feet by another man is essential to changing your vibe and bringing your man back. In this free report you re going to learn 3 very powerful Secrets what makes men really fall in love and stay in love - forever. If you don t learn what really makes a man fall deeply in love, you ll continue to experience pain and frustration when it comes to men and relationships. I want to show you how to avoid as much anxiety, worry and frustration as possible and experience what it actually feels like to sit back, settle in and not work at all while your man is moving your relationship forward. Let s get started!

4 Secret #1 How To Save Your Relationship And Get Him Back We ve all experienced, at some point, our man withdrawing and pulling away. Out of nowhere he tells you, He loves you but he s not in love with you anymore. Or he s met someone else, or he s going through a really hard time and is no longer sure of what he wants anymore. Suddenly you re devastated, life feels unbearable, and you re afraid of never finding a man like him again. I get it. I ve been there. (You can read my story in my ebook, Bring In Mr. Right) The quickest way to get your man back is by getting your energy completely off of him and focusing on yourself during this time and getting yourself back, first. When you do this - You create space to attract the right man for you, one who will give you the love you desire. Right now, if you believe this man who s pulled away is your soul mate, the one - and you re meant to be together it will happen.

5 Holding on to the thought and belief, He s your soul mate may actually be working against you getting him back and from the love you really want. He can feel it if you re holding on and trying to get him back. During this time of healing, you re going to feel so many emotions. One minute you re going to feel sad, then angry, and sometimes you re going to think, Things are going to ok. In the blink of an eye you ll go back to feeling bad and confused and have so many questions AND then all of a sudden this sense of urgency to contact him! Don t do it. Don t contact him! Your Relationship Rescue Raft Right Now - Imagine your man is sitting in front of you and you re on a cozy two- person raft floating in the beautiful blue green ocean not too far from shore. The sky is blue, the water is calm and there s a soft summer breeze. The shore is off in the distance, with white sandy beaches and palm trees the shore represents your happily ever after. Who has the oars? Who s rowing? Is it YOU? Most likely if you re reading this you re the one rowing.

6 If you re the one rowing what s your man doing? Is he just sitting there watching you do all the work? Most likely he s just hanging out right? Since you have the oars in your hands, I want you to physically row this raft to shore. Row as fast as you can, faster, faster, and even faster! How does that feel? Tiring? Exhausting? Are you getting closer to the shore? If you re reading this I don t think so! On the count of 3, drop those oars!! DROP! How does that feel? Better? Easier? What s your man doing? He s probably looking at you funny, having a beer definitely still relaxing and most likely just enjoying himself. Imagine Laying Back into the softest, fluffiest pillows and blankets that are behind you on the Raft. Look up to the sky, and put your hand in the water and let it trail in the water. How does that feel? Easier? More relaxing? Yes!!! What s your man doing now? Is he picking up the oars? Here s the thing if you don t put the oars down forever you ll never know if your man or any man has the ability to row the Relationship Raft! I can t promise you this man back.

7 But I can promise you this if you vow to put the Relationship Oars down forever I can promise you the most amazing, caring, loving, passionate, romantic relationship you ve ever dreamed of! What does rowing look and feel like? It feels hard, exhausting, frustrating, lonely, and confusing! Rowing can also look like Making It Too Easy for him. I was the Queen of rowing the Relationship Oars And Making It Too Easy! Making It Too Easy for a man looks like: Worrying about him when he hasn t called Confirming plans Looking into things for him Wanting him to know how you feel Wanting him to know you re interested Driving to him because it s more convenient Cooking him dinner Paying for things Not wanting to rock the boat Having sex too soon Asking him how he s doing when he hasn t asked you how you re doing Why do we make things so easy for a man?? Because it feels so good to us! It feels so right! It s what you do for the man you love and even the man you re just becoming interested in. There s a very common theme among us women. We believe at a gut level that if we don t show a man how much we care, how much we love him, or how interested we are he s going to just drift away. He ll think we re not interested and lose interest.

8 These unconscious thoughts and beliefs are actually sabotaging our love lives and pushing our men away! Making it Too Easy for a man repels him! It causes him to lose attraction for us, day by day and he has NO IDEA why! And then when we ask him what s going on for him not only does he NOT have an answer we now sound needy and insecure. Making it too easy also looks like calling him, texting him, initiating anything, asking things from him, taking care of him, or helping him in any way! This is very masculine energy and he can t connect with you romantically when you re coming from this energy it actually repels him. To keep it simple If he s pulling away and withdrawing it s because we re rowing the Relationship Raft and Making It Too Easy for him. Period. If you re wondering how to get your man back or if it s even possible, or you re finding yourself waiting for a man to make up his mind about you, go to my website and book your FREE 30 minute Bring Him Close Coaching Session. I ll help you quickly put a Love Plan together so you know EXACTLY what to do next.

9 Secret #2 Bring Him Back By Being The Woman He Craves What you want to do is convey to him in way where you don t even need to say anything - that you re a woman who knows what she wants and she s not willing to settle. Your vibe radiates out into the world that you re not a woman who s willing to stay in a situation that feels bad or tolerate bad behavior ever. You re not a woman who s afraid to go toe to toe with him or rock the boat. You re also a woman who knows a man has a right to make his own choices and you d never stop him from doing something he wants to do. You respect his choices whether you agree with them or not. It s your choice to stay or walk away. These beliefs create intense attraction for a man. He can see a woman who values herself over him from a mile away. It s mysterious and sexy! It makes you naturally more attractive and hard to get without playing games. You just ARE hard to get. If you ve been Making It Too Easy and feeling anxious, insecure and working really hard to save your relationship it can feel really difficult

10 to get back to your happier more confident self and feeling irresistible and magnetic no matter how much you want to. What A Man Truly Craves A Yummy Pie! You have everything you need right now inside of you to quickly turn your relationship around and make your man fall deeply in love. If you re thinking of your man as The Prize instead of knowing and believing you re The Prize he needs to win Do This: Right now imagine your man is right in front of you and you re a yummy piece of pie you have everything your man wants! And say to yourself, I AM The Yummy Pie (This is a Rori Raye Tool that worked really well for me.) He wants your pie. He wants everything you already are as a woman. Pie is not only yummy - it s warm, sweet, messy, gushy, and delicious! Next time you re with your man and he s not paying attention to you (or you re just thinking about your man) Do This Notice when you re up in your head thinking about him and wondering how to get him to pay attention to you, or call you, or just spend more quality time with you... Or maybe you re going down the same road of You re not good enough, you re not pretty enough, you need to lose some weight, you should ve worn something more flattering Instead of stuffing down your feelings and distracting yourself feel all the icky feelings and THEN say to yourself, I AM The Yummy Pie. See how it feels and see what your man does!

11 A man truly craves a woman who believes she s great just the way she is. This makes him believe she ll think he s great just the way he is this is what gets you your man. Can you feel the difference from Rescuing Your Relationship Raft to Being The Yummy Pie? Just this one Tool can transform everything and there are so many more I want to share with you

12 Secret #3 How To Bring Him Close And Effortlessly Attract The Relationship You Want When we stop trying to move our relationship forward in any way he ll feel it! Your next step to bring him closer is valuing YOU! He can t value you and love you until you value and love yourself. Start valuing yourself This Way You have your very own Love Compass always guiding you towards True Love. Most of the time we think how we feel about a man is how we know we ve found true love, especially if the chemistry is AH- mazing! But that s not it at all. The ONLY thing that matters, is how you feel when you re with him and when you re not with him.

13 Do this now - Write down 10 feelings you want to feel in your ideal relationship. In 2010, I wrote down I wanted to feel loved, cherished, adored, sexy, curious, happy, safe, secure, protected, wanted, beautiful, vibrant, alive and relaxed. I feel ALL of these feelings, daily, with my husband. You might be wondering how this applies to getting your man back. Can I be completely honest with you? The way I see it there s only one road to getting him back and it s also the road to True Love. You must be willing to walk away if he can t give you what you really want. You have to put yourself and how you feel, first, before any man. How do you even get there when you re so in love with him? This is your work. I can help you with this. A man doesn t want to be with a woman who puts him before herself. It feels like pressure to a man. He doesn t want to be put on a

14 pedestal he s most attracted to YOU when you put yourself up on the pedestal. He s most attracted to you When you love yourself enough to not stay in a situation that feels bad. When you love yourself enough to know the right man for you wants to make you happy. When you love yourself you automatically become a high value woman. This is what a man wants! Let s recap: Get all of your energy OFF of him, and redirect your energy back on YOU! If he s not in front of you he doesn t exist!! 1. Stop Doing What Doesn t Work Rowing or Making It Too Easy 2. Start Doing What Does Work - Be The Woman He Craves 3. Value Yourself More Than Any Man So He Can Value You This will make your man see you in a completely different way and he ll crave being with you! These are 3 simple, yet very powerful ways to quickly attract your man back or attract a new man who wants to give you the love you desire. There s so much more I can teach you about men, love, romance and relationships. If your man is unsure about your relationship, or seems perfectly happy only seeing you once a week and you want help knowing exactly what to do next, go to Just tell me a little bit about your situation and if I feel I can help you quickly, we ll schedule a time to work together by phone or by Skype.

15 I would love to hear how everything goes for you! Love, Leigha P.S. Although we d do almost anything to get our man back, when it happens, it never feels the way we think it s going to feel. Your energy has shifted and you ve transformed and you got yourself back in the meantime. This is a good thing!! This is how the relationship can be better than ever. P.S.S. Disclaimer: I want to help you attract the man of your dreams. If the man you want back is abusive in ANYWAY - please seek professional help.