1 Real men. 1. The King Face A. The King Face expresses itself through. B. Characteristics of the King Face C. Evidence of the King in You. D. The King Face in Scripture Leaders over creation Genesis 1:26, 28 Then God said, Let us make man in our image, in our likeness, and let them rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, over all the earth and over all the creatures that move along the ground. 28 God blessed them and said to them, Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and over every living creature that moves on the ground. Leaders of the church Matthew 28:18-20 Then Jesus came to them and said, All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 and 1 Lesson adapted from Robert Lewis Men s Fraternity Session 2: and Stu Weber The Four Pillars of a Man s Heart. Gaylon Clark, Lead Pastor 1
teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age. Leaders in society Matthew 5:13-16 You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled by men. 14 You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven. Leaders at home 1 Corinthians 11:2 Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God. E. When the King is Undeveloped The king becomes a tyrant. The king becomes an abdicator. Questions: When you hear the words there is a king in you, how does it make you feel? Does it make you feel stronger or does it make you feel pressure? In what ways do people discourage the king in men and boys from taking the throne? 2. The Warrior Face A. The warrior face expresses itself through. B. Characteristics of a Warrior Face Fighting spirit Appreciation of a Challenge C. Evidence of the Warrior Face Gaylon Clark, Lead Pastor 2
D. The Warrior Face in Scripture 1 Timothy 6:11-12 But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness. 12 Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses. Proverbs 24:10 If you falter in times of trouble, how small is your strength! 1 Corinthians 9:25-27 Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last; but we do it to get a crown that will last forever. 26 Therefore I do not run like a man running aimlessly; I do not fight like a man beating the air. 27 No, I beat my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize. E. When the Warrior is Undeveloped The warrior becomes cowardly and retreats from necessary battles. The warrior becomes a brute and fights at the wrong time. Question: What in our culture seeks sabotage the warrior within us? 3. The Lover Face A. The lover in you expresses. B. Characteristics of the Lover Face Emotional Openness Physical Affection Gaylon Clark, Lead Pastor 3
C. Evidence of the Lover Face D. The Lover Face in Scripture Genesis 2:18 The LORD God said, It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him. Ephesians 5:25-27 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 1 Peter 3:7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers. E. When the Lover is Undeveloped 4. The Friend Face The Lover becomes a womanizer. The Lover becomes an idolater. A. The friend in you expresses. B. Characteristics of the Friend Face Fun Laughter C. Evidence of the Friend Face Gaylon Clark, Lead Pastor 4
D. The Friend Face in Scripture John 15:12-13 My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. Proverbs 17:7 A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. Proverbs 27:5 Better is open rebuke than hidden love. 6 Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses. E. When the Friend Face is Undeveloped The friend isolates. The friend smothers. Small Group Questions 1. Of the four faces of manhood which one do you express most naturally and most often? Share a few ways you do this. 2. Discuss ways to develop and mature the king in you. 3. Choose one of the three other faces and discuss how you can develop it in the days ahead. Gaylon Clark, Lead Pastor 5