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24/2011/E 13 Julia Cada/Maya Götz Look, Bob was also able to do it! Parents strategies in dealing with licensed products For an IZI study parents explain what role licensed products play in purchasing decisions and in their family s daily life, as well as what positive occurrences, problems, and conflict resolution strategies are connected with them. Children already recognise logos at the age of 19 months and from the age of 3 on, they also identify objects by their brand names (cf. Schor, 2006, p. 17, according to Barceló, 2007). The market naturally exploits these abilities and addresses children as autonomous consumers, knowing full well that they are not truly independent (cf. Feil, 2003). Although children in fact possess their own capital, usually starting from the age they enter school (cf. Grassmann et al., 2008), most everyday commodities such as toothpaste, sweaters, or pencil cases are, however, still purchased by parents, with children dependent on their parents purchasing decisions (cf. Wintersberger, 2005). Therefore, a difference arises between those for whom the product is designed and those who have the necessary financial re sources. This dynamic is especially virulent in products with licensed images from children s TV. We asked ourselves: How do parents actually deal with their children s desires in every day life? How are the purchasing decisions for licensed products made? What happens when conflicts occur? And what significance do licensed products have in everyday life? We were interested in the perspectives and the realm of experience which parents have as experts in the daily life which their children experience. For this reason we asked them to share their everyday strategies with us. Methodology In a qualitative study parents were asked about their everyday negotiations with licensed products from children s TV. In response to open questions, they described typical purchasing situations, problems, and the everyday use of licensed products, using specific examples. In addition, they revealed their strategies for dealing with purchase desires. 54 parents (52 mothers and 2 fathers, aged 24 to 49) with 1 to 4 children (aged 1 to 21) contributed their every day episodes in writing. The survey was conducted between June and August 2009 and provided interesting insights into parents strategies. TV licensed products as a normal part of the everyday life of families In response to the question Does your child have products on which film or TV characters are pictured?, parents answered, for example, Yes, just about everything, from underwear to winter jackets to bedclothes (mother, 30 years old). Or they provided specific examples such as toys with Bob the Builder, the Little Polar Bear and bedclothes with the Wilde Kerle [The Wild Soccer Bunch] as well as various objects with Sponge- Bob (mother, 27 years old). Almost all the parents surveyed have products with film and TV characters at home. The most common brands mentioned were Bob the Builder, Princess Lillifee, Winnie the Pooh, and the Disney Princesses. Bob the Builder alone is present in the answers of 29 out of the 54 people surveyed and Princess Lillifee is represented in 27 families. The licensed characters are found on children s clothing, on bedclothes, or on games such as memory games, puzzles, and trading cards. The range of licensed products mentioned is very large, extending from a Spiderman backpack, Pokémon bedclothes, and a Lillifee toothbrush to a Bibi Blocksberg puzzle, the Wilde Kerle pencil case, or a SpongeBob pyjama. How does the purchase of licensed products take place? Our son discovered this set while we were shopping and really wanted to have it. Since the price was quite cheap, it quickly landed in the shopping cart, said a mother (26 years old), describing the purchase of a set of dishes with Bob the Builder. When parents describe the typical course of events leading to the pur-

14 24/2011/E chase of a licensed product, in 40 % of the specific examples it is the child who expresses the wish to buy the product. The children s typical purchase trigger cited by the parents is a visual stimulus in the supermarket, in a catalogue, or in an advertising spot, or because other children own the product. In many examples which the parents remember, however, they, too, are sometimes the ones who choose the licensed product. Adrian will begin kindergarten and my husband and I wanted to give him a lunchbox from SpongeBob (mother, 25 years old). If they recognise an everyday necessity and consider the product to be useful, they can, by all means, deliberately decide on a licensed product. Parents can often recognise the connections very clearly for themselves, for example A Bob the Builder lunchbox needed for kindergarten (mother, 25 years old) or A Lillifee toothbrush is for a good cause and the request will, as a result, also be granted (mother, 33 years old). Licensed products are also purchased as a pedagogically intended affirmation of the child s behaviour, e.g., the Lego-Duplo vehicles from Bob the Builder [ ] as a reward for behaving bravely during vaccination (mother, 33 years old). In many cases the parents purchased the products on their own motivation, because they knew that their children would be pleased with the gift. For her 6 th birthday my daughter had a Tinker Bell party. This was my idea and I bought things such as paper plates, paper cups, tablecloths, and other decorations weeks before I had even suggested a Tinker Bell party to my daughter (mother, 34 years old). In such cases parents know their children s preferences and buy products for them which, thanks to the licensed image, they know will meet their children s taste. This provides at least a certain sense of security in the face of disappointment, when the children do not in fact like what their parents have purchased for them. Often, the fact that the child specifically mentioned a certain product was the reason for subsequently purchasing it. Thus a mother says, for example, about a dress from Kim Possible: She pointed to it and said she liked it. So she got it for her birthday (mother, 32 years old). Parents are willing to buy licensed products out of self-motivation especially for special occasions such as birthdays or Christmas. In doing so, parents at least those in this survey were, with noticeable self-irony, aware of the fact that they were the real driving force behind the purchases. One mother, for example, knows that her son is a huge fan of Spiderman: I see something in a shop that I know my child will like and in a fit of madness I buy the product myself, without the child even having expressed a wish for it simply to make him happy (mother, 38 years old, on Spiderman clothing). Although this mother is aware of a lack of consistent reasonableness or of an explicit wish on the part of the child, she nevertheless buys the licensed product. A cognitive dissonance emerges which, in this case, in fact fails to result in a rejection of the purchase decision but does lead to self-ironic formulations. The intent of wanting to please the child was in this case stronger (cf. Sander, 2004). Making the purchase decision becomes particularly easy and pleasant when the licensed character also appeals to the parents. In response to the question of whether there were situations in which the parents would have really liked to purchase the licensed product, half of the parents responded Challenge for parents: the toy store as trigger for purchase desires with examples: Of course. For example the Maja the Bee cuddly animal or socks with Bob the Builder labels. Or bedclothes with Knut the Polar Bear. I like these things myself. It looks nice or is simply cute (mother, 44 years old). If the television programmes, moreover, satisfy the parents educational expectations, it then seems particularly easy for them to purchase the licensed product, even without the child s expressed desire for it. As one mother (32 years old) said: I gladly bought her the Laura s Star accessories, since I find the programme nice and suitable for children. Everyday use of licensed products R. Heber/Pixelio In order to approach the functions of licensed products in everyday life, we asked parents to describe the role of products in their children s daily lives, using specific everyday episodes. The most common function of licensed products in everyday situations, such as described by parents, was to apparently make it easier for children to submit to tasks desired by their parents such as toothbrushing, haircuts, or wearing a cap they dislike. A case study: My son does not really like to wear caps, but he loves Bob. When we were looking for a cap for the winter, we showed him several different models that had more or less

24/2011/E 15 the same price. He then decided on one with Bob, because the character was on it. For the same reason he then wore the cap the entire winter without complaining and without being pressured. Everyone involved was, as a result, happy (mother, 30 years old). This mother describes the daily resistance of her child to wearing his cap. The parents request that the child wear a cap for health reasons conflicts with the child s discomfort of having to wear a cap. The parents strategy: they offer the child different products to choose from. Left to himself, their son picks out a cap which pictures a licensed character and which, because of a TV programme, has a particular significance for him. Due to the choice made on his own, the positive feeling he has towards the character, and the satisfaction he feels in purchasing the product, the boy as the decider in the purchase situation is motivated to fulfil the agreement. Afterwards, the mother too considers the purchase decision to be decidedly positive, since the boy now consistently wears his cap. A positive reinforcement is generated, which will presumably also cause the mother to be quite willing to choose a licensed product or to let her son choose one the next time (cf. Hofbauer/Dürr, 2007). In order to be able to fulfil this function at all, the licensed product depends in many cases on the licensed TV programme itself. Another family on their experience with the character of Bob the Builder: How often have we heard them say: Mama, Bob said that! And usually Bob says only true and good things wonderful! (mother, 25 years old) Parents comment on fears, doubts, or concerns in an almost ritualised manner: Look, Bob was also able to do it! The boy plays with these products more than with normal things. Bob is, in this case, the daily companion who acts as orientation and encourager. He helps children to overcome the small problems of everyday life and provides parents with an additional level for communication with the child. And precisely because Bob assists the family so well, the mother has also bought a lunchbox with Bob the Builder because her son often does not eat all of his food. Her hope that the presence of his favourite character on her son s lunchbox would help improve his eating habits was, however, shattered: He loves the lunchbox, but he still often brings his lunch home uneaten for an object labelled with a licensed character is not a panacea for all the little worries of parents. IZI Utilised by parents even if they do not consider it positive: licensed products for body care This also becomes apparent from the descriptions parents give of the everyday functions of licensed products. The allocation of meaning and the effectiveness of licensed images emerge from the children s communication with the media product as well as through the parents daily negotiations about and with the licensed character. Parents use licensed characters in very purposeful ways in child-rearing: Our son loves football more than anything else, but he does not, for example, like having his hair cut. New shoes are also sometimes a problem. We only have to say You know what, Bastian Schweinsteiger [a popular German Soccer player] has a very similar haircut, wears exactly the same shoes, etc. and then, strangely, everything works out fine (mother, 26 years old). References to media characters are a part of the child-rearing behaviour of parents. And parents themselves indeed perceive this, with a self-ironic smile: Bribery clearly worked out in our family. She only gets the Lillifee doll when she stops screaming at every trifle (in the sense of loud, high-pitched screams that pierce your eardrums). Until now it has worked fine and she only had to give up her doll once for 2 days until now (mother, 38 years old). The Lillifee doll is used to positively reinforce a certain type of desirable behaviour. It is a deal between parents and children, in which an object charged with emotional significance (the licensed product) becomes an item of negotiation. From a theoretical point of view, this is not without its problems. First, the strong significance of the licensed character is made even more manifest, without this becoming aware to the parents as a consequence of child-rearing behaviour. Second, implied meanings of a product, such as, for example, a certain type of girl stereo type with Princess Lillifee, are usually not taken into account. From the perspective of everyday life with children, however, these are absolutely practical daily strategies which are employed by children and parents with joy. The Madagascar toothbrush makes brushing your teeth much more fun. This also applies to showering with the gel from Wilde Kerle It has to be Wilde Kerle shower gel, which supposedly smells soooo great (mother, 33 years old). Aside from the everyday strategy of supporting with a licensed product what is pedagogically desirable but perceived by children as unpleasant, parents typically emphasise the singularity of objects by means of licensed products. One mother (44 years old) justifies her purchase: A backpack with Winnie the Pooh on it is simply prettier than one that is just black. [ ] This has something to do with aesthetic sensitivity. It

16 24/2011/E Parents evaluate the reasonableness and utility of licensed products, as well as their willingness to buy them in the product groups puzzles clothes body care products bicycles and walking bikes food just looks good and you recognise the characters, they are familiar. You enjoy them, we adults just as much as our children. The product creates a bond between parents and children and takes on an unmistakeable distinguishing feature: As soon as the product images are on the objects, the recognition value is considerably enhanced (mother, 33 years old). A very practical benefit results from this: children can distinguish their belongings from others. Families sometimes develop complete systems for distinguishing items. For socks, cups, etc. the products function in such a way that every child knows what is theirs and what belongs to their siblings [ ] One child knows that the Sigg bottle or the Tupperware box with Lillifee is theirs and that the one with the Moon Bear is his (mother, 41 years old). Children can distinguish themselves from others and invest their products with an individual value. In addition to the peculiar emotional bond and the practical considerations of distinctiveness, grounds for communication and ownership pride are also involved. One mother (34 years old) describes the role of her sons Cars products: Tshirt and cap are put on more easily, preferably everyday. People also ask them about certain characters, this makes them proud. It works much better when you can put on your favourite clothes. The licensed image offers a reason for communication, since children but also parents spontaneously react to a licensed product by naming the character (assuming they recognise it). This creates a level of communication between children and adults that otherwise is difficult to find, but neither parents nor children are truly aware of the significance. Strategic tricks for dealing with children s desire for licensed products A typical reason for conflict situations surrounding the purchase desires of children is of an aesthetic-taste nature, since the content of the programmes is in part rejected. Secondly, licensed products are often deficient in the quality of material and production. Frequently, an inappropriately high price discourages parents or they can find no reason for purchasing the product. In this case parents need to become experts on the strategies and tricks required for dealing with the potentially problematic purchase desires of their children in everyday life. We asked parents to tell us about their successful recipes. Making clear agreements A number of parents emphasised the importance of a clear position against which children can orient themselves. This position may be a very clear rejection say no consistently (mother, 49 years old) or a basic attitude categorical rejection (mother, 39 years old). This can especially be the case with certain products or situations, such as this mother (38 years old) describes: My child absolutely wants to have something with/by the Power Rangers. I refuse completely, since it is too much of a good thing. In other cases clear agreements are made before going shopping, for example: My daughter is allowed to choose a certain amount of things in the supermarket (mother, 38 years old). These kinds of clear agreements function well in a number of families: We basically buy only what we agreed on beforehand [before entering the shop] (mother, 34 years old). If an argument still arises, many parents choose to have a discussion. Discussing purchase decisions and making them understandable Parents often attempt to explain why the purchase is acceptable or not,

24/2011/E 17 IZI Clothing with licensed characters (here Spider man): gladly worn and an expression of individual preferences without refusing on principle (mother, 38 years old). Based on ev eryday experiences, it is not very helpful to reject the child s desires without offering reasons or exceptions. This leads to emotional tension and severe arguments, which can quickly escalate into pure power struggles. Communication strategies promise more success and make more pedagogical sense. They allow room for argumentative discussions with children on what is good and sensible about a purchase at that particular time and what is unreasonable. A mother (29 years old) offers an example of a situation with a Bugs Bunny product: Child: Mum, look, I want the yoghurt with the bunny. Mother: No, my dear, look. It contains strawberries and tastes exactly like this other one without the bunny. Child: But this one is for children. Mother: The other one is also for children and doesn t cost as much, so that we can even buy two. From the parents perspective a successful strategy involves finding understandable arguments for children during the discussion. One mother (44 years old), for example, reports how she dealt with the desire of her daughter, who wanted the same Lillifee bottle as her girlfriend. That s silly, then you would confuse them. It s better if each of you has a different bottle. Several parents reported how they attempted to discuss the issues of the belongings of others and brands as openly as possible. When our child says I want those great glitter sneakers!, I then let her have 2 to 3 shoes to choose from [at home]. We often talk about the brand products of other children. I explain to them that everyone has something different which is wonderful, and stress those great things we have. This mother tells us how she attempts to address very fundamental problem areas such as the admiration of possessions and the purchase desires that result from them. She also accounts an everyday strategy which many parents report as a successful course of action: limiting the choice. Offering a limited choice Parents find limiting the number of choices a successful strategy when shopping both in terms of content and cost: When my child is allowed to choose something, I limit the choice available beforehand, so that the array of choices is not too large and the child is not overwhelmed as a result (mother, 32 years old). Parents also develop far more elaborate tricks which nonetheless lead in their view to a successful and pleasant shopping situation. In the past, before I went shopping for shoes with my sons, I would visit the shoe shop beforehand and choose 2 or 3 pairs for each of them which made the short list on the basis of their form, quality, and features. Then I had the shoes set aside at the cash register. In this way my sons did not get stuck in a corner with all those lovely shoes with patterns on them (mother, 41 years old). Fulfil desires only at an appropriate occasion Frequently, children s purchase desires are not being fulfilled immediately, but are rather being postponed deliberately, or the desired article is given as a gift at the next occasion deemed appropriate. One mother, for example, reports how her son Oli (8 years old) got his licensed sport bag with the logo of the Wilde Kerle: Oli saw the bag by chance in a catalogue and wanted to have it. We told him he could ask for it for his birthday, which he did, and then we gave it to him on his birthday (mother, 44 years old). In such cases parents also report experiencing emotionally stressful situations, but ones which are nonetheless worthwhile putting up with: Bob the Builder vehicle: wanted it, cried, and still received it only 2 months later for his birthday (mother, 32 years old). Tapping the children s pocket money Sometimes the responsibility for purchasing an item is also passed on to children and they have to buy the product from their pocket money. A mother recalls a successful strategy: The children have a certain desire and express it accordingly. Then we talk about it together: whether this product is useful, whether the price is appropriate, and how it can be paid for (parents, birthday gift, or pocket money) (mother, 34 years old). Creative ways of circumvention Parents also find ways of separating their children s desires for licensed products from the actual licensed products themselves being offered on the market. For example, in one family the father places special value on high-quality products, while the daughter only allows her hair to be washed with Arielle shampoo. As a consequence, The Arielle shampoo bottle is filled with an ecological shampoo (mother, 34 years old). In another situation a way is found to avoid the cost-intensive purchase of licensed products: Place stick- L. Dippold/Pixelio Licensed product desires: fulfilled especially on special occasions

18 24/2011/E ers with the favourites on the plain lunchbox or make your own stickers and draw the favourites on them (mother, 28 years old). Letting children have their own experiences In other cases some parents report everyday strategies by which they purposefully let children have their own experiences. Lillifee toothpaste. It is more like adult toothpaste, but our daughter absolutely wanted to have it. We bought it so that she could try it. But it was too strong for her and now Mama uses it. When the edible products are not too expensive and our daughter absolutely wants to try them, although I already know that she will not like the taste of them, she is allowed to test them. We too sometimes have to do the same in order to find out what is good and what isn t. This is, apparently, a promising way the mother has found to allow her daughter the space to experience the problem of deficient material quality on her own and to be able to transfer it to other products. In her argumentation she presents the understandable parallels to her own shopping behaviour: children are, just like adults, learners in dealing with the oversized range of consumer choices. Her interpretation: just as adults sometimes buy the wrong product, this also happens to children. It is important in this case, however, to provide space and interpretation patterns for this. Shopping without children Some parents reveal how they find a way to avoid the temptation of shopping stimuli: Going to the toy shop without the children (mother, 39 years old). Precisely because the situation of standing before a shop display with desirable products is seen as very challenging for children and/or parents in everyday life, it is sometimes intentionally avoided: Go shopping without the children as a matter of principle (mother, 34 years old). TV licensed products in the daily life of families Licensed products have strong significance in the everyday life of families. They enrich parents and children in their handling of daily tasks. They fulfil aesthetic desires, stimulate communication and inspire reflection (guided by everyday theory) on how to deal with consumption. In most cases the parents themselves purchase the products with licensed images of TV characters often having the explicit purchase desire from their children in mind, but often also of their own accord and with the knowledge that the product will make their children happy. This is particularly easy for them when the character fits their own taste. But even when this is not really the case, parents are ready to make a certain amount of impulsive purchases. Problems, however, often arise when the price is not right, the quality is not convincing or simply because a reason for purchasing the item is missing and the parents feel it is not appropriate for educational reasons to indulge the children s purchase desires. Then they find all kinds of small strategies: sometimes a clear no, often reasoning or communicative negotiation and, occasionally, a circumventing of the shopping situation by, for example, filling bottles with other contents or simply going shopping without the children. Consequently, parents and children do have competence in their shopping behaviour, which becomes clear from their strategies and reflections on wrong purchases or spontaneous purchases that make little sense. At the same time, the obvious way in which parents read the shopping situation remains critical and indications of cognitive dissonance are present in their descriptions of everyday episodes. Everyday benefits and the socio-cultural attitude continue to be 2 opposing poles. Parents at the same time intentionally employ licensed products as a child-rearing tactic. 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