FINDING YOUR EASTERN EUROPEAN WIFE The Path to Marital Bliss

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1 FINDING YOUR EASTERN EUROPEAN WIFE The Path to Marital Bliss First Edition By ANGELINA KROK and RONALD JUTTE DATINGWOMENUKRAINE.COM KYIV THE HAGUE

2 Finding your Eastern European wife. The Path to Marital Bliss. 2 There is no more lovely, friendly, and charming relationship, communion, or company than a good marriage. Martin Luther, German priest and scholar Copyright 2013 by Angelina Krok and Ronald Jutte. All rights reserved. Finding your Eastern European Wife. The Path to Marital Bliss. The book was conceived and made by Angelina Krok and Ronald Jutte. No portion of this book may be reproduced mechanically, electronically, or by any other means, including photocopying and recording, or by any information storage or retrieval system without the written permitting of the authors. The book is available for citation, but with a mandatory reference of the book s title and author s names. This book should explicitly indicate that copy of the work and change of the book is not permitted without the written permission of the author. The authors express their gratitude to Daria Riabchenko for her help in preparing the book Finding Your Eastern European Wife. The Path to Marital Bliss for publication

3 Finding your Eastern European wife. The Path to Marital Bliss. 3 ABOUT AUTHORS ANGELINA KROK: Success of Marriage is a Truly Believe in God and a Strong Desire to Start a Family I am from Ukraine but live in the U.S. In 2008 I got married with the good and decent American man. By the time I began, my only purpose of crossing the ocean was building a family with an intelligent and self-sufficient man. Good education allowed me to have interesting and well-paid jobs. I work as a journalist and editor since I got my first university degree in one of the most prestigious universities in Ukraine, the National Technical University of Ukraine (KPI). Also, I am finishing undergraduate level in the American college. Throughout my career I have been writing many articles on various topics, including international marriage. I should note that there has been written a lot about this delicate social phenomenon, however there is only a little bit of credible information. There are many sickly-sweet advertising or horrors researchers about sexual abuse and domestic violence by Western men of Eastern European women. As is often the case, the truth lies somewhere in the middle. Marriages of Western men with Eastern European women are not new facts. It is of all ages and times; everybody knows this who is familiar with history. However, in our time with the invention of the Internet have appeared a lot of dishonest websites and agencies. So, I wrote this book Finding your Eastern European Wife. The Path to Marital Bliss to help those, who are looking for happiness and do not want to be catch in a trap, which is set by some selfish swindlers and tricksters. Also, I would like to tell that for the international marriage 100% of success is guaranteed, if both people truly believe in God and have a strong desire to start a family; everything else is just technical difficulties. When my English was in the stage of basic level and my fiancé did not know any Slavic language, I realized how exaggerated fears about different languages as well as mentalities and cultures are. Now my husband and I celebrate two Christmases and two Easters. In our house can be heard English and Russian, Ukrainian and Spanish. I love the Wild West, however; I was born and grew up in the East. My husband loves Europe and Ukrainian cuisine but cannot live without the United States.

4 Finding your Eastern European wife. The Path to Marital Bliss. 4 RONALD JUTTE: I would like to Show Others How to Avoid a Lot of Beginners Mistakes I am from The Netherlands and I understand men who enter the world of international dating very well and I would like to show men how to avoid a lot of beginners mistakes, which I made, because I didn t have the knowledge that I have now. Like many Western men I had to go through fraud, trickery, and dishonest business on the long path to personal happiness. Unfortunately, to get through to the good dating agency, fair website, and honest lady is not always easy; often dating abroad starts with meeting a lot of fraud agencies, websites, and ladies who are standing in the front row to take money from men. Helping men to avoid that they come into contact with fraud in the market of international dating, is the main reason why I started up my business and my website, Datingwomenukraine.com, in The Netherlands. It arose from an idealistic perspective in order to offer the best possible alternative for less reliable parties. The new dating agency works on the matchmaking principles and contains all that is needed to give a good and reliable service. If this service would be offered everywhere; it would save a lot of time and energy for men who wish to meet with feminine and traditional Ukrainian ladies. At the same time, it is very important to realize that your success of finding a serious relationship can be found around the corner. I was often surprised by the sincerity of Ukrainian women who are looking for a serious relationship. So do not waste your chances. I wrote the book Finding your Eastern European wife. The Path to Marital Bliss for those who have no experience in international dating, who have already taken the first steps in this direction, and for those who have already a lot of bumps, negative experience, and lost hope. The book contains all the secrets of international dating as how to deal with culture and language differences, what you need to know from making the first steps of finding a lady till having a serious relationship, the do s and don ts when you are having a date with a lady and so on. Also, the book contains some tips of how to avoid the mistakes that are made by men, for example, choose frivolous women which condemns them to future pain. I really would like to prevent that other men will make such a long road like I made; that is why I wrote this book. The time that I wasted, I may save for other men.

5 Finding your Eastern European wife. The Path to Marital Bliss. 5 CONTENTS CHAPTER I... 9 YOU ARE WELCOME TO THE WORLD OF THE INTERNATIONAL MATCHMAKING A Little History Why do you look for Ukrainian Ladies? Comparing websites like Social Networks with Dating Agencies What are the Main Principles of Choosing a Dating Agency? Which Agency to Choose: Large or Local? The First Signs of Honest and Dishonest Agencies and Websites CHAPTER II HOW TO FIND A WOMAN WHO IS PERFECT FOR YOU A Little Bit about Fulfillments of Wishes Marry the First Comer Are you ready for a Serious Relationship? A Bird in the Hand is worth two in the Bush Look for your Lady and do not let yourself be tempted by the Beauty, Youth, and Sexuality Do not Exaggerate Femininity and Do not Ignore Globalization Be Realistic about Your Chances CHAPTER III 22

6 Finding your Eastern European wife. The Path to Marital Bliss. 6 MARKET OF UKRAINIAN BRIDES Ukrainian Girls are Serious about Marriage and Family The Struggle for Genuine Love The Beauty of the Body and Soul are Advantages of Ukrainian Girls Why Ukrainian Men do not Value their Great Women Why it is more likely that Western Men will find an Educated Woman In What Regions of Ukraine you have More Chances to Meet with Good Ladies What do Women Expect from International Marriages? CHAPTER IV.29 EAST-WEST: AT A CROSSROADS OF DIFFERENT CULTURES Change the Place of Residence and Save the Marriage The Contrast between Ukrainian and Western Life Styles and Mentality A Little Bit about How Ukrainians Handle Money About the Spiritual and Secular Life of Ukrainians Characteristics of Ukrainian Etiquette Courting Ukrainian Girls CHAPTER V 37 HOW TO BUILD THE ADEQUATE RELATIONS An Immature Love and Fall Head over Heels in Love Learn From the Mistakes of Others and Always Have a Plan B

7 Finding your Eastern European wife. The Path to Marital Bliss. 7 How to Make a Truthfully Good Impression Some Important Rules of First Dates Lost in Translation or How to Solve the Question of Translation How can you know that a Woman is Interested in You? CHAPTER VI.45 WHOM TO CHOOSE: THE GIRL NEXT DOOR OR FEMME FATALE? To Marry a Dream Basic Men s Mistakes in the Choice of Women What is a Good Image of the Girl Next Door? What you should consider after the Engagement CHAPTER VII 51 A FEW TIPS WHICH HELP YOU TO KEEP A RELATIONSHIP The Marriage for Necessity Why is it Wrong to Think that Children Strengthen Marriage The Mutual Respect Begins with the Esteem of the Partner s Culture Invaluable Role of Woman in Building a Successful Marriage What are Mail-Order Brides and How about That?

8 Finding your Eastern European wife. The Path to Marital Bliss. 8 INTRODUCTION There are many reasons why people are looking for their better half in other countries, just as there are a lot of prejudices about the international marriage. Neither your reasons to seek your fortune abroad, nor what other people may think is important. The only thing that matters is keeping a positive attitude and believing in your success. There are many positive stories about successful and happy marriages between men and women of different nationalities and cultures. And it is correct to say that much of the charm and brightness of this relationship is due to the fact that couples share different cultural and religious values, as they were raised and formed in the different ethnic environments with different languages. They take it as a gift to be able to get to know different cultures and traditions. Imagine a family where there is Christmas two times a year! However, there is one circumstance: they both should respect each other s culture and try to get to know it. Desire is needed to change your life. Of course, besides the desire you also need to have the useful, timely, and sometimes very specific knowledge to become successful in the Eastern European dating and in your international marriage. So, this book is for you.