Marital Relationships: Research and Intervention Issues: Divorce and family media4on; Children s groups on divorce; Stepfamilies

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1 Marital Relationships: Research and Intervention Issues: Divorce and family media4on; Children s groups on divorce; Stepfamilies Research team: Monica Accordini, Vittorio Cigoli, Davide Margola, Costanza Marzotto, Giancarlo Tamanza

2 1. DIVORCE AND FAMILY MEDIATION Key areas: - Effects of divorce on children - Interventions supporting families Collaborations with: - Civil & Juvenile Courts - AIAF - SIMeF (European Forum) RP (2000): Parenting after divorce between risks and resources: What differential effects on children? (PI: V. Cigoli) RP (2006): Family mediation vs. Family litigation (PI: G. Tamanza) Since 1997: Two-Year Postgraduate Master Program in Family and Community Mediation (now at the 7 th Edition)

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4 2. CHILDREN S GROUPS ON DIVORCE Groupes Confidences Québec, Canada (since 1991) Gruppi di Parola Italy (since 2006) Groupes de Parole France & Belgium Children s Groups UK (Scotland) Goals: Allow children to share their emotions with peers, to put into words their feelings about their parents divorce, as well as to share strategies in order to cope with the important changes occurring in their life Structure: 6-12 year-olds; 2 group mediators; 4 weekly group sessions; parents in the last session only

5 3. STEPFAMILIES IN ITALY: FACTS AND DATA Over the past 15 years: n Divorce rates have more than doubled (+101%) n Separations have also increased rapidly (+61%) Currently: n Second marriages have boosted (more than in 2009, constituting the 14% of all marriages) (Gambini, 2007; ISTAT, 2009) n More than 5% of all households are stepfamily households n About remarried families are currently residing in Italy

6 3. STEPFAMILIES IN ITALY: FACTS AND DATA n Mostly made of a divorced or separated or widowed man who marries a single woman n Spouses are older than in European stepfamilies n More highly educated and richer than first marriage couples n Less complex: Children born in second marriages are rare and so are couples in which both partners have been married before n Women are less likely to marry a second time n Women in stepfamilies are more frequently employee than housewives

7 3. STEPFAMILIES IN ITALY: AN EXAMPLE OF ONGOING RESEARCH AIM: Understand the characteristics of professionals that work with stepfamilies in Italy and the US; investigate their representations of stepfamilies SAMPLE: 125 Italian psychologists & 45 American psychologists RESULTS (Italian professionals only): Lack of knowledge of remarried families and their specific issues Tendency to overlap and confuse remarried and divorced families Focus on divorced nuclear family and children of divorce Lack of specific training on the topic and belief that no specific instruments are needed

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