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1 CHARITY JUSTICE PRACTICE THE PRINCIPLES OF OUR ORDER NEWS OF THE LODGE ISSUE 1 APRIL 2018 VOLUME LXV A FRATERNAL ORGANIZATION CELEBRATING 65 YEARS OF ELKDOM Exalted Ruler s Message Let s start this year by giving our outgoing team a BIG Hooray for working so hard! Congratulations PER Mike, and all of your team, for your successes. for the Sports Dinner and the St. Patrick s Day Parties in March. The Mega 50/50 will be a great help to the Special Children s Committee. Also I cannot forget the great food our Chef Cathy, and all the kitchen volunteers that provides us at all of these events too! As we move forward, and continue to grow as a group, I want to take this opportunity to also thank all of YOU for being involved in the way that makes sense to each and every one of you. We are each a bigger part of the whole. Our motto this year Members Make Change is to remind me, and all of you, that the Lodge belongs to all of us. We choose those we trust, to keep our beloved Lodge safe, and sound. We support our events to keep us thriving and allow us to continue the important charitable work we do for our community. It is also with the love of my family, their involvement in Elkdom and support that helps me get through each day. Please take note of the changes made with regards to our Officers, Trustees, Lodge and Statutory Committee Chairs contacts and even our Editor. I am very excited to have so many new members taking on roles right away. Please join me in welcoming everyone. Rene Nadeau, thank you for the years you have dedicated to ET. I know it was like pulling teeth to get the articles, but you have kept all of us well informed. Jenel Marino, we look forward to seeing what you can do! You do such a fantastic job in EVERYTHING you do! You are so creative that we can t wait to see what you will do next! Thank you to the House for such a wonderful evening There are lots of events coming up that you can support by offering your time to volunteer, coming as a participant or just buying a ticket and giving it to someone else to come! The annual Lodge gift Auction is on April 6th! Look for the Bocce Ball League for Special Children that the Special Children s Committee and the Bocce Ball League are working on together. April 7th the Veteran s Committee is hosting a free AAA Safety Driving Class which could end up saving you money on your auto insurance! April 20th is the International Wine & Cheese tasting event to support our Veteran s Committee. I would like to continue our newest tradition of naming a Lodge Member as the Elk of the Month. Just starting her 2nd year, this Member has kept to her reason for becoming involved with the Elks, meeting people and giving back. Her uncle was an ER in a lodge in another state, and this was her inspiration. She has jumped in whenever and wherever needed. She has supported anyone that needed support, especially Bingo and Veterans. She has donated many things to us that have been used in the Secretary s office, as 50/50 gifts, as well as for the upcoming Gift Auction. Thank you Deborah Cornell for being a Member that makes change! MEMBERS MAKE CHANGE

2 CONVENTION NEWS THE LODGE THANKS ALL OF OUR BULLETIN BOOSTERS ONLY $10.00 PER YEAR BOOSTER FORMS IN LOBBY PLEASE NOTE EXPIRATION DATE BY YOUR NAME Current Boosters Get ready for another great weekend at the NJ State Elks Convention in Wildwood. First class accommodations at the Adventurer Hotel and Suites. Continental breakfast, pizza every night, music, dancing, activities, hospitality every day and every night. Rooms still available starting at $375 for 2 people for 2 nights. Hotel is right on the beach, at the end of the boardwalk, walking distance to Convention Center. All rooms have A/C, balcony, full kitchen, TVs in every room. Contact George Coyne or Vinnie Piccioli. Bartender volunteers needed. SPECIAL CHILDREN S COMMITTEE Thank you to ER Mike Paris for running the Mega 50/50 at the St. Patty s Day event and giving 50% of the winning to special children. Great Job Mike. Sign-up sheets for the SCC Bocce Ball Players and Bocce Ball Buddies are in the lobby Challenger Baseball starts up on April 9:30 and runs through June 17th. They play every Sunday morning and this year the Elks sponsored team is the Royals. Hopefully you can come out to one game and support these teams and see how hard these kids work I promise you, that you will be truly inspired with these kids. Games are played on the Toms River East Little League field. Run-a- Palozza- for Special Olympics is scheduled for April 22nd. Anyone wanting to help serve post-race food or food after the the convention center please let me know. July 25th is the annual trip to Camp Moore to serve food to the campers and advisors. There will be a bus leaving TR Lodge around 8:30 and arriving back approx. 6:00. There will be a sign-up sheet in the lobby as the event gets closer. This is a trip I would advise everyone to do. It gives you an opportunity to see what Camp Moore is all about. Atlantic Printing - 7/2019 Payne, Dolores 06/2020 Bolen, In Loving Memory of Larry- 1/2025 In Loving Memory of Bill Payne, PER Brando, Joan & Joe 5/2019 Philp, Sue & Paul 12/2022 Buonviri, Carl & Rose 5/2019 Pierson, Jay F. 3/2018 Brummer, John PER & Shirley - 12/2018 Robinson, Stu 1/2019 Carsten, Bill - 1/2020 Rose and Ray 7/2018 Darrow, Evan & Sue 6/2022 Spiecker, Daryl & April 4/2018 Donatiello, Don & Irene 3/2019 Taylor, Don & Joan 1/2019 Dowling, John & Toni 4/2022 Tempora, Mike PER & Sue 3/2018 Fitzpatrick, Tom & Kathy - 9/2019 Thompson, Janet 11/2018 Halliwell, John & Dawn 10/2018 In Loving Memory of Bill Thompson Hall, Brian & Patti 5/2020 VanHouten, Toni 2/2018 Kennedy, Bob & Connie 2/2022 Wildermuth, Heinz 9/2018 LeRoy, Bill & Mary - 10/2022 Zorojew, Tamerlan 2/2021 Lewis, PER Richard & Catherine - 3/2018 Grandma Graessle and Pop Pop Lorenzo - Lightbody, PER Norvella (Pug) 6/2020 paid for 10 years In Loving Memory of Mary Ellen Gloff Raymond & Elanoe Latshaw - paid for 5 years Lightbody, PER Norvella (Pug) 6/2020 Daniel Bradley - Paid for 5 years In Loving Memory of Roden S. Lightbody Lightbody, PER Norvella (Pug) 6/2020 In Loving Memory of Roden S. Lightbody Kevan, Kayla, Aaron, Aidan & Aryonna MacIntire, Jeanette 5/2019 In Loving Memory of Jerry MacIntire, PER Miller, Raymond & Laurinda 10/2018 Morton, Brian 09/2018 Morton, Dennis 02/2018 Muth, Herbert 03/2018 Nadeau, René & Marian - 2/2018 Nowitzke, Denny & Chris 03/2020 Papalia, Vicki & Andrew 08/2018 We would like to congratulate Mike Paris and all his Officers for a year well done! We would also like to wish Eileen Coyne and her Officers the Best of Luck for this upcoming year. Respectfully submitted: Kathy DeMey/Charlene Dolan 3 We have room, so sign up now.

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4 APRIL CALENDAR OF EVENTS 2018 Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Happy Easter Public Relations Committee Meeting 6:30 PER s Meeting 7:30pm Annual Gift Auction -10pm (doors open at ) Fun Friday Night Happy Casserole Night 8am AAA Safe Driving Class 10am Lodge Activities Meeting Lodge Meeting 13 Friday Night Dinner Food 6 8PM 14 Lodge Clean Up Day 9am House Meeting 11am Veterans Committee Meeting Fun Friday Night 7:30pm International Wine Meat & Cheese Tasting Veterans Fundraiser Lodge Meeting 8am Friday Night Dinner Food 6 8PM am Special Children s Committee Meeting This calendar is subject to change. Please visit tomsriverelks.com or our Members Only Facebook for the most up to date event information. Need help accessing this information online? Call Jenel at or elkstalk@hotmail.com

5 6 MAY CALENDAR OF EVENTS 2018 Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Mother s Day Brunch 10am-2pm Public Relations Committee Meeting 6: th Annual Flower Sale Preorders ONLY 9am-5pm 10 4 th Annual Flower Sale Preorders ONLY 9am-5pm Lodge Meeting Veterans Meeting 7:30pm Lodge Meeting SAVE 7 th Annual Spring Fling Gift Auction 5pm Northern Italian Wine Tasting By Mark Levey 6:30pm Face 2 Face Feud Veterans Committee Fundraiser 8am 8am 27 House Meeting 11am 28 Special Children s Committee Meeting Elks Wildwood Convention Starts This calendar is subject to change. Please visit tomsriverelks.com or our Members Only Facebook for the most up to date event information. Need help accessing this information online? Call Jenel at or elkstalk@hotmail.com

6 March 13, 2018 NOTICE TO ALL MEMBERS HEARING POSTPONED UNTIL Carmine Inteso, Jr. has requested The Grand Lodge Commissioner of the Pardon Board for an application requesting a pardon. A hearing is scheduled at our next regularly scheduled lodge meeting on 4/12/19 at 7:00pm 7

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8 VETERAN S COMMITTEE The next few months will be busy ones for our committee, beginning with April 7, the AAA safety driving course will be held at the Lodge, this is a free class and once completed you will receive a certificate to present to your insurance company, and will receive a 10% discount on your coverage. The class starts at 10 am and goes until 2 pm. The kitchen will be open so that you can purchase lunch, the class is almost full, so if you still wish to join, please call asap to be included Everyone is invited to join us on Friday April 20 for a Wine & Cheese tasting fund raiser, our host for the evening is Dennis Morton who will be teaching us the finer facts of wines, reds, white, rose s and more. There are only 75 tickets being sold for this event so if you haven t got yours yet, now is the time to buy them, there are some located at the bar. The tickets are $25 each, this is going to be a sell out event so don t be left out. All proceeds raised go to the Veterans Committee. Our next big fund raiser is on Saturday May 5, join us for a fun night at the FAMILY FEUD. Everyone is invited to participate, bring your friends, neighbors, or come alone and join one of the teams. The cost is only $15 per person, bring your own snacks to enjoy, there will be a cash bar available for beverages. We will run a 50/50 and the more tickets we sell the bigger the prize. So come on down, join the fun, test your knowledge with the Party Tyme company as they put us through our paces., there will be prizes for the winning team. There will be tickets available for purchase at the bar, or by calling , All proceeds raised will go to the Veterans Committee to be able to continue providing programs for our hospitalized Vets and our Active Duty Military. a fun day out, come and say HI to hospitalized Vets, who will be our guests, they are looking forward to spending time out of their facilities and enjoying some great food and socialization. The picnic runs from 12 noon until 4pm, see you there!! To all of the Veterans Committee members, thanks for all you do, to all our Lodge members...don t forget to thank a Vet. Sue Gajewski Veterans Committee Chair Coming soon, the SE District Veterans Committee fund raiser...our annual M.A.S.H. picnic will be held on Saturday May 12 at the Brick Elks Lodge. Tickets are $15 per person, ALL Veterans can attend FREE OF CHARGE...there will be great food, music, a ring toss to win bottles of wine and other cocktails. It s 9

9 UPCOMING EVENTS International Wine & Cheese Tasting Veterans Fundraiser Enjoy wine, meat and cheese from all over the world. We will be tasting 6 reds and 4 whites hand selected by Dennis Morton. $25 per person. Tickets are on sale at the bar. Proceeds to benefit our Veterans. Toms River Elks Northern Italian Wine Tasting We will have 5 Northern Italian food pairings accompanied with 5 Italian wines, 3 red wines and 2 white wines, There will be an expert sommelier describing each wine when it is being served and answering any questions. Live entertainment all night. $35 per person. Entertainment by Jonni Drue I ll be Frank - Frank Sinatra Tribute. com/ Tickets are on sale now! For further information contact Mark Levey Play Tyme s Family Feud **VETERANS COMMITTEE FUNDRAISER.**Bring your friends and family out to enjoy Play Tymes Family Feud on May 5th. You will feel like you are actually on the show. $15 donation to benefit our Veterans. You can bring your own food or table snacks. Doors open at. The game starts at. Elks and their guests are welcome. Call Sue For Tickets HORSESHOE PLAYERS Sign up sheet is in the main lobby for new teams. You can also check in on the website for horseshoes (elkshoes.com) Just a reminder for all players May 4, Friday night in the lounge (6-8 pm) to pick team numbers and pay. We do this so on May 16 the first night I can have the schedule on the website for all to see. 10 To Register go to Saturday, April 7 (1 Day) 8:00am-4:30pm Saturday, April 21 (1 Day) 8:00am-4:30pm Tuesday, April 24 & Friday, April 27 (2 Nights) 6:00pm-9:30pm Saturday, May 5 (1 Day) 8:00am-4:30pm Tuesday, May 15 & Friday, May 18 (2 Nights) 6:00pm-9:30pm Saturday, May 26 (1 Day) 8:00am-4:30pm AAA Safe Driving Class Class is open to our lodge members, their family and friends. Instructor: Chief Glen Kildare USN RET. Contact Sue Gajewski to register at This event is sponsored by the Veterans Committee.

10 TOMS RIVER LODGE NO Hi Carl, STATUTORY COMMITTEES Americanism Chairman - Shirleyann Emmons TBD Auditing Chairman - Dave Fitzgerald, Nancy Ostojich, & Sandy Pizzi By-Laws - Susan Baita Drug Awareness - Laura Clifford Elks National Foundation - George A. Coyne, Jr Elks Training - Casey Coyne, PER Phil Fucetola, PDD Leonard Len Tarnowski, PER, PDD Fraternal - Leonard Len Tarnowski, PER, PDD General Charity - Denny Nowitzke, Paul Danielczyk & Rich Davidson Government Relations - Richard Miller Indoctrination - Casey Coyne, PER Investigation - Alice Curry-Sheret Lodge Activities - Casey Coyne, PER Membership/Lapsation - Anita Aldridge TBD Memorial Services - Kenneth V Salerno, PER Public Relations Chairman - Jenel Marino Relief - Chair Officers, Secretary & Treasurer Social & Community Welfare - Rob Proft Veterans National Service Chairman: Sue Gajewski Co-Chair: Rudy Lucrezi Youth Activities Chairman - Kathy DeMay Washington Street, Toms River, N.J new phone system When calling the Lodge use Correct Ext # Name Ext. # Catering or Hall Rentals Main Bar Secretary Treasurer Steward - Tom Fitzpatrick Ext. 205 Voice Mail Only Exalted Ruler Information Only Bingo & Other Event Info Lodge & Committee Meetings Directions to the Lodge LODGE OFFICERS Exalted Ruler - Eileen Coyne Leading Knight - Kathleen Kathy Jaworski Loyal Knight - Susan Sue Baita Lecturing Knight - Robert Rob Proft Secretary - Nancy Hannah Ext. 203 Treasurer - Franca Reisen Ext. 204 Tiler - Tim Seaman Esquire - Alfred Al Perez Chaplain - Robert Bob Cimer Inner Guard - Elizabeth Beth Lightbody-Cimer Organist (State) -Kenneth Ken V. Salerno, PER Co-Chair - Charlene Dolan BAR HOURS - Open 11am Daily Bar Chairman: Lisa Chiurazzi Manganiello BARTENDERS Marian, Mark L, Doug, Shawna, Maryann, Paul, Lisa, Annie, Sean, Neil, Linda, & Theresa MEETING NIGHTS MAIN BAR LUNCH SERVED D AILY John s Riverside Florist have made some changes to the Gato ad. Please use this one. Thanks, Rene For All Occasions Ask about... Have that special occasion at Toms River Lodge WEDDING ANNIVERSARY Roden Lightbody New ET Ad to replace Able Home Repair CALLING ALL CREATURES VETERINARY HOSPITAL Richard Rich Gato Realtor Associate PECORA REALTORS Hooper Ave, Suite 6 Toms River, New Jersey "How's the market in Toms River, NJ?" For All Your Real Estate Needs For the answer to this question, and all your ROBERT ROBERTG. G.CIMER, CIMER,D.V.M. D.V.M. 246 Washington Street Toms River, N.J BY2 (2292) BIRTHDAYS RETIREMENT ETC. Call the Lodge Extension 201 Or Nancy at real estate Residential questions, Commercial contact Douglas "Doug" Tortorelli Waterfront Investments at Coldwell Banker Flanagan Realty. Vacation Homes New Construction Doug.Tortorelli@FlanaganRealty.com Ask about VA Loans Office (732) Contact Rich (Cell) or Cell@ (732) Rich@PecoraRealtors.com 2nd & 4th Thursday of the month Meetings start - 7:00 pm TRUSTEES Past Exalted Rulers Meet 1st Thursday of the Month - 7:00 pm 1 Year - Mark Levey - Insurance Coordinator Year - Scott Golembeski - Accident Prevention Year - Siegfried Sieggy Jaworski - Building & Gounds Year - George A. Coyne PVP, PER - Secretary Year - Anthony Fontana Veterans Meet 3rd Thursday of the Month - 7:30 pm Treating Clients Like Family Call or Text: Office: Fax: Web: Glen Kelly.com Executive Offiice 100 Longboat Ave. Beachwood, NJ Special Children Meet Last Monday of the Month Public Relations Meet First Wednesday of the month Presiding Justice Matthew Sage, Esq. Alternate to Grand Lodge - Michael Paris Officers and Trustee s Meet Tuesday prior to Lodge Meetings - 7:00 pm LODGE COMMITTEES House Committee Meets Monthly Bingo Chairman - Ralph Merlo, PER Buildings & Grounds - Trustee s Catering - Nancy Hannah Convention - George A. Coyne, PVP, PER Darts - Scott Golembeski Flag Day - Richard Miller Jackie Masterson, PER Horseshoes Chairman - Denny Nowitzke Co-Chair - Tom Bird elkshoes@gmail.com House Chairman - Bruce Baita Lodge Scholarship - Jackie Masterson, PER Co-Chair - Nancy Baker - Scott Golembeski Sickness & Distress - Robert Cimer, Chaplain Special Children s - Charlene Dolan Kathy DeMay Steward - Tom Fitzpatrick Ext. 205 ELKS TALK ELKS TALK EDITOR, ADS, & BOOSTERS: Jenel Marino ElksTalk@hotmail.com SOCIAL MEDIA WEBMASTER: FACEBOOK, INSTAGRAM, TWITTER & GOOGLE+: Jenel Marino Tomsriverelks@outlook.com WEBSITE WEBMASTER: Rich Davidson, webmaster@tomsriverelks.com Printing / Mailing: Atlantic Printing and Design Elks Talk is published monthly by Toms River B.P.O. Elks 1875, a non-profit organization. Publication is for members only. Subscription is included in member s dues. 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11 PRESORT STANDARD U.S. POSTAGE PAID CFSM OFFICIAL MONTHLY PUBLICATION OF TOMS RIVER LODGE NO B.P.O.E. 600 Washington St., Toms River, N.J A FRATERNAL ORGANIZATION CELEBRATING 64 YEARS OF ELKDOM ADDRESS SERVICE REQUESTED Prepared by Chef Kathy SUPPORT YOUR LODGE APRIL DINNER MENU Reservations Are Recommended, call x202 Reservations Required by Wednesday to guarantee your choice. April 13 th New York Strip Steak w/ Sautéed Onion, Mashed Potato & Veggies Lobster Ravioli w/homemade Seafood Newburg Sauce Fish & Chips...9 The May dinner menu is currently being created by our new House Committee. April 27 th Twin Lobster Tails...25 w/ Potato & Veggies Seared Blackened Tuna w/ Rice Pilaf & Veggies Shrimp in a Basket...9 All dinners served with salad, fresh rolls, dessert & coffee or tea. Soup, appetizers, and dessert specials available. 7PM BINGO EVERY WED. NIGHT G E T I N V O L V E D J O I N A C O M M I T T E E