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1 Session 5 Love and Respect I. The Crazy Cycle A. Men and women need BOTH love and respect in a marriage B. Conventional wisdom (common sense) tells us: 1. should be unconditional 2. should be earned C. Women have a much greater need for D. Men have a much greater need for

2 II. What the Bible says However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. Ephesians 5:33 A. The Bible commands the man to his wife B. The Bible commands the woman to her husband III. Where we get into trouble A. Communication Men hear as contempt Women feel as hostility B. Conflict IV. How to show Love and Respect in a marriage A. The Energizing Cycle 2

3 B. C O U P L E: How to spell LOVE to your wife C O U P L E : She wants you to be close : She wants you to open up to her : Don t try to Fix her, just listen : She wants you to say, I m sorry : She needs to know you re committed : She wants you to honor & cherish her C. C H A I R S: How to spell RESPECT to your husband C H A I R S : Appreciate his desire to work and achieve : Appreciate his desire to protect and provide : Appreciate his desire to serve and to lead : Appreciate his desire to analyze and counsel : Appreciate his desire for shoulder to shoulder friendship : Appreciate his desire for sexual intimacy V. So Who Starts? A. Two dangerous words:... References: Eggerichs, Emerson (2004). Love and Respect; The Love She Most Desires, The Respect He Desperately Needs. Nashville: Integrity Publishers. 3

4 APPLICATION QUESTIONS 1. How did you see Love & Respect modeled (or not) in the home you grew up in? 2. How did you react hearing the Bible s command for husbands to unconditionally love their wives and wives to unconditionally respect their husbands? 3. Men: What do you find challenging about loving your wife unconditionally? (Remember, this is NOT an opportunity to talk about what your wife is doing wrong!) Women: What makes it challenging for you to unconditionally respect your husband? (Again, this is NOT a time to talk about what your husband does wrong!) 4. Men: Explain what effect it has on you to receive respect and what effect it has when you aren t respected. Women: Explain what effect it has on you to be given love and what effect it has when you are not shown love. 5. Does the Crazy Cycle apply to your marriage (or previous relationships)? How so? 6. To enter the Energizing Cycle : Men: Out of the 6 areas of C O U P L E which ones do you need to work on the most to communicate love? Women: Out of the 6 areas of C H A I R S which ones do you need to work on the most to show respect? 7. How does this topic change your view of marriage as you go forward from here? 4

5 DEVOTIONS WEDNESDAY Ephesians 5:21 33 Are there any areas of this passage you are having a hard time grasping? Pray that God would help you gain His perspective on loving and respecting in marriage. THURSDAY 1 Corinthians 11:12 These verses look at how man and woman were not meant to operate independently. What areas in your marriage can you grow closer to your spouse? FRIDAY Luke 6:27 31 Sometimes we feel our spouses do not deserve our love or respect, but what is the Bible telling you about how we should treat each other? What are areas that you need to treat your spouse better even though you don t think they deserve it? SATURDAY Matthew 5:23 24 In what ways have you lacked loving or respecting your spouse this week? After reading these verses, what is the Bible telling you to do? SUNDAY 1 Peter 3:1 7 What does this passage say about the character God wants you to have? Reflect on how you feel God calling you to act towards your spouse? MONDAY Ephesians 5:21 33 Reread this passage. After a week of letting this sink in, what do you feel God is telling you to change in your marriage? What steps will you take today to move towards that change? 5

6 HOMEWORK How we think about our spouses is a huge part of executing the love and respect concept. If we focus on the negative things about them it is always harder to develop love and respect. A way to keep your focus and thoughts in the right place is to think in affirmations. Wives, list below all the reasons why you respect your husband. View your husband at his work place and list all the reasons you would guess his co workers respect him. To expand your list, call someone that is close to your husband and ask them to tell you all the reasons why they respect him. Husbands, list all the reasons why you love your wife. Put yourself in the shoes of people in your wife s world and list why you would guess these people love her. To expand your list, call someone that is close to your wife and ask them to tell you all the reasons why they love her. Single or divorced, spend some time looking over this list considering past relationships. Knowing this information today, how might it impact future relationships tomorrow? What things can you learn from past relationships in light of this content and the list below? On the following pages are ideas of how you can love and respect your spouse. Choose 2 things this week that will speak either love or respect to them and act on them. Appendix 6

7 Putting C 0 U P L E and C H A I R S into action C O U P L E: How to spell LOVE to your wife Closeness YOUR WIFE FEELS CLOSE TO YOU WHEN You hold her hand You hug her You are affectionate without sexual intentions You are with her alone so you can focus on each other and laugh together You go for a walk or jog anything that results in togetherness You seek her out set up a date night eat by candlelight You go out of your way to do something for her, like run an errand You make it a priority to spend time with her You are aware of her as a person with a mind and opinions let her know you enjoy discussing things with her and getting her insights. You suggest the unexpected get takeout and eat on the beach take a walk to see the full moon park on the bluff and watch the sunset You pillow talk after making love lie close with your arm around her and share feelings and intimate ideas and never turn on SportsCenter or Nightline. Openness YOUR WIFE FEELS YOU ARE OPEN TO HER WHEN You share your feelings, telling about your day and difficulties You say, "Let's talk," ask her what she's feeling, and ask for her opinions Your face shows you want to talk relaxed body language, good eye contact You take her for a walk to talk and reminisce about how you met or perhaps you talk about the kids and problems she may be having with them You pray with her You give her your full attention no grunting responses while trying to watch TV, read the newspaper, or write e mails You discuss financial concerns, possible job changes, or ideas for your future Understanding SHE'LL FEEL YOU'RE TRYING TO UNDERSTAND HER WHEN You listen and can repeat back what she said You don't try to "fix her problems" unless she specifically asks for a solution You try to identify her feelings You never dismiss her feelings, no matter how illogical they may seem to you You say, "I appreciate your sharing that with me." You don't interrupt her when she's trying to tell you how she feels You apologize and admit you were wrong You cut her some slack during her monthly cycle You see something that needs to be done and you do it without a lot of hassle You express appreciation for all she does: "Honey, I could never do your job." You pray with her and for her 7

8 Peacemaking SHE'LL FEEL AT PEACE WITH YOU WHEN You let her vent her frustrations and hurts and don't get angry and close her off You admit you are wrong and apologize by saying, "I'm sorry. Will you forgive me?" You understand her natural desire to negotiate, compromise, and defer, and you meet her halfway You try to keep your relationship "up to date" resolving the unresolved and never saying, "Forget it." You forgive her for any wrongs she confesses You never nurse bitterness and always reassure her of your love You pray with her after a hurtful time Loyalty SHE IS ASSURED OF YOUR LOYALTY WHEN You speak highly of her in front of others You are involved in things important to her You help her make decisions, such as ones regarding the children You don't correct her in front of the children You don't look lustfully at other women You make her and your marriage a priority You are never critical of her or your children in front of others You include her in social gatherings when others may leave their spouses home You tell the kids, "Don't speak to your mother that way!" You call and let her know your plans You keep commitments You speak positively of her and the children at all times Esteem YOUR WIFE WILL FEEL ESTEEMED WHEN You say, "I'm so proud of the way you handled that" You speak highly of her in front of others You open the door for her You try something new with her You give her encouragement or praise with kindness and enthusiasm You notice something different about her hair or clothes You are physically affectionate with her in public You teach the children to show her and others respect You value her opinion in the gray areas as not wrong but just different and valid You choose family outings over "guy things" You make her feel first in importance You are proud of her and all she does 8

9 C H A I R S: How to spell RESPECT to your husband Conquest YOUR HUSBAND WILL FEEL YOU APPRECIATE HIS DESIRE TO WORK AND ACHIEVE WHEN You tell him verbally or in writing that you value his work efforts You express your faith in him related to his chosen field You listen to his work stories as closely as you expect him to listen to your accounts of what happens in the family You see yourself as his helpmate and counterpart and talk with him about this whenever possible You allow him to dream as you did when you were courting You don't dishonor or subtly criticize his work "in the field" to get him to show more love "in the family" Hierarchy YOUR HUSBAND WILL FEEL YOU APPRECIATE HIS DESIRE TO PROTECT AND PROVIDE WHEN You verbalize your admiration of him for protecting you and being willing to die for you You praise his commitment to provide for and protect you and the family (he needs to know you don't take this for granted) You empathize when he reveals his male mind set about position, status, rank, or being one up or one down, particularly at work You never mock the idea of "looking up to him" as your protector to prevent him from "looking down on you" You never, in word or body language, put down his job or how much he makes You are always ready to figuratively "light the candles," as E. V. Hill's wife did when they couldn't afford to pay the light bill You quietly and respectfully voice concerns about finances and try to offer solutions on where you might be able to cut spending Authority HE WILL FEEL YOU APPRECIATE HIS AUTHORITY AND LEADERSHIP WHEN You tell him you are thankful for his strength and enjoy being able to lean on him at times You support his self image as a leader You never say, "You're responsible but we're still equal, so don't make a decision I don't agree with" You praise his good decisions You are gracious if he makes a bad decision You disagree with him only in private and honor his authority in front of the kids You give your reasons for disagreeing quietly and reasonably, but you never attack his right to lead You do not play "head games" with him to make him back down and be a "loving peacemaker" 9

10 Insight YOUR HUSBAND WILL FEEL YOU APPRECIATE HIS INSIGHT AND COUNSEL WHEN You tell him upfront you just need his ear; don't complain to him later that he always tries to "fix" you You thank him for his advice without acting insulted or like he doesn't care about your feelings You recognize his problem solving approach as his male brand of empathy You realize your vulnerabilities, especially among males, and value his protection You counsel him respectfully when you differ with his ideas (you could be right but wrong at the top of your voice) You sometimes let him "fix things" and applaud his solutions You let him know that you believe God has made us male and female for a purpose and that we need each other You admit that you can sin and thank him for his perception and godly counsel Relationship YOUR HUSBAND WILL FEEL YOU VALUE HIS SHOULDER TO SHOULDER FRIENDSHIP WHEN You tell him you like him and you show it (he knows you love him, but he often wonders if you really like him) You respond to his invitation to engage in recreational activities together or you come along to watch him (you don't have to go every time, but just now and then will energize him more than you realize) You enable him to open up and talk to you as you do things shoulder to shoulder You encourage him to spend time alone, which energizes him to reconnect with you later You don't denounce his shoulder to shoulder activities with his male friends to get him to spend more face to face time with you. Respect his friendships, and he will be more likely to want you to join him shoulder to shoulder at other times. Sexuality HE WILL FEEL YOU APPRECIATE HIS DESIRE FOR SEXUAL INTIMACY WHEN You respond to him sexually more often and initiate sex periodically You understand he needs sexual release just as you need emotional release You let him acknowledge his sexual temptations without fearing he'll be unfaithful and without shaming him You don't try to make him open up to you verbally by depriving him of sex 10

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