From Clark Kent To Superman: Personality Type To Super Power. Jennifer H. Fields, LPC, CWDP, CPRW NAWDP Conference, Orlando, FLA, 5/25/2016

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1 From Clark Kent To Superman: Personality Type To Super Power Jennifer H. Fields, LPC, CWDP, CPRW NAWDP Conference, Orlando, FLA, 5/25/2016

2 Presentation Guarantee You Already Possess Super Powers You Are Here To Claim and Use Them 2

3 Presentation Goals Identify Your Unique Super Power Build Your Super Power Profile Create Your Super Power Statement 3

4 Presentation Map 1. Bat out of Unemployment Hell: Recovery 2. Self-Awareness, Assessment, Self-Efficacy 3. Increase Choice Power: Learning AFGO 4. Personality Type: Energy, Info, Decisions, Actions 5. Kroeger s Type Strength Grid 6. Keirsey s Temperament, Role, Specialty 7. Fields Super Power Profile 8. Here We Go! 4

5 Saved By a Type of Meatloaf Dyin at the bottom of a pit in the blazing sun Torn and twisted at the foot of broken career And I think somebody somewhere must be tollin a bell.. And the last thing I see is my heart, still beating Oh breakin out of my body and flying away Like an INFPeeeeeeeee 5

6 Premise #1: Super Powers Increase Confidence and Self-Efficacy Focusing on Your Super Powers Increases Awareness of Self and Others, Allows You to Play to Your Strengths 6

7 Self-Efficacy: I can do it! KEY WORDS Self Belief Ability My Capabilities Organize Execute Required Manage Situations 7

8 Self-Efficacy Starts with Self Awareness Breathe In, 2, 3, 4 Breathe Out, 2, 3, 4 Attend Inside Notice Breathe Name without Judging Breathe Breathe 8

9 Premise #2: Learning is Fun and Increases Our Choice Power Each One of us can learn from the situations in which we find ourselves. 9

10 The AFGO Strategy ANOTHER FUN GROWTH OPPORTUNITY Name It: My Mess Claim It: My Part In It Reframe It: What s My Growth Edge? 10

11 The AFGO Pledge I WILL MAKE MISTAKES SO I CAN LEARN FROM THEM! (EVEN IF I M CONFUSED, OR FRIGHTENED, AND WOULD RATHER NOT) 11

12 Success starts with ME Exactly as I Am, Right Now Type, Strength and Temperament Clues to our Super Powers 12

13 Premise #3: Super Powers Are Me Your Super Power is what you do so well, it seems effortless, and others recognize it as you. 13

14 My Super Power Profile Hello I Am: Confidence Nervousness Personality Type: Type Strengths: 1,2,3 Temperament: 1. Role: 2. Specialty: 3. Super Power: Purpose: Method: Power Statement: Confidence Nervousness 14

15 My Super Power Profile Hello I Am Confidence Nervousness Personality Type: Temperament: Role: Specialty: Super Power: Purpose: Method: Type Strengths: Power Statement: I AM Confidence Nervousness 15

16 Super Power Worksheet Activity Just Say Hello, I am. 16

17 My Super Power Profile Hello I Am Confidence Nervousness (Turn to someone next to you and introduce yourself, 1-5 rate your confidence and nervousness) Personality Type: Temperament: Role: Specialty: Super Power: Purpose: Method: Type Strengths: Power Statement: I AM Confidence Nervousness 17

18 Personality Type: We Got Patterns Plato Paul Tieger Carl Jung Otto Kroeger Isabel Myers- Katherine Briggs David Kiersey 18

19 My Super Power Profile Type: (How do I manage energy, information, decision, action? Your 4 Letters) Temperament: Role: Specialty: Super Power: Purpose: Method: Type Strengths: Power Statement: I AM Confidence Nervousness 19

20 How do We Operate In Our World? (Fire Trucks at 3A.M.?) Energy Introvert Or Extrovert Information Sensor Or intuitive Decision Feeling Or Thinking Action Judicious Or Perceptive Inward Recharge in Quiet Deep Focuser Relevant Exact Details Tangible Specific Values Effects Self/Others Subjective Act Now Decisively No then Yes Present S F J I Outward Engaged Connector Random Abstract Ideas Creative Potential Analyzes Outcomes Patterns Objective Process Options Yes then No E N T Future P 20

21 Neurologically Different: Introvert/Extrovert Dopamine Makes Me Happy! Introvert Pathway: 7 Steps to Throttle Down Extrovert Pathway: 5 Steps to Throttle Up 21

22 Introverts, Ambiverts, Extroverts! Oh My! (What If I m BOTH?) Name 2 ways you adjust you behavior: 22

23 Type Style: How We Choose to Express It EnTp: IT Supervisor Connects to others, analyzes out loud entp: Software Developer Creatively grasps big picture options, and shares: 23

24 Type Gives Clues to Super Powers Introverts are Deep Focusers Extroverts are Powerful Connectors 24

25 My Super Power Profile Hello My Name Is: Jen Fields Confidence 3 Nervousness 4 Type: INFP Type Strengths: (What are my successful go to behaviors?) Temperament: Role: Specialty: Super Power: Purpose: Method: Power Statement: I AM Confidence Nervousness 25

26 Typological Strengths What are you known for doing well? 26

27 Kroeger 16 Types: Pick 3 Strengths ISTJ: MOST RESPONSIBLE Doing What Should Be Done ISFJ: MOST LOYAL A High Sense of Duty INFJ: MOST CONTEMPLATIVE An Inspiration to Others INTJ: MOST INDEPENDENT Everything Has Room for Improvement Organizer Compulsive Private/ Trustworthy Rules n Regs Practical Amiable Works Behind the Scenes Ready to Sacrifice Accountable Prefers Doing Reflective/Introspective Quietly Caring Creative Linguistically Gifted Psychic Theory-Based Skeptical My Way High Need for Competency Sees World as Chessboard ISTP: MOST PRAGMATIC Ready To Try Anything Once ISFP: MOST ARTISIC Sees Much But Share Little INFP: MOST IDEALISTIC Performing Noble Service To Aid Society INTP: MOST CONCEPTUAL A Love of Problem Solving Very Observant Cool and Aloof Hands-On Practicality Unpretentious Ready for What Happens Warm and Sensitive Unassuming Short Range Planner Good Team Member In Touch with Self and Nature Strict Personal Values Seeks Inner Order/ Peace Creative/ Reserved Non-Directive Challenges Others to Think Absent-Minded Professor Competency Needs Socially Cautious ESTP: MOST SPONTANEOUS The Ultimate Realist ESFP: MOST GENEROUS You Only Go Around Once in Life ENFP: MOST OPTIMISTIC Giving Life an Extra Squeeze ENTP: MOST INVENTIVE One Exciting Challenge After Another Unconventional Approach Fun Gregarious Lives for Here and Now Good at Problem Solving Sociable/ Spontaneous Loves Surprises Cuts Red Tape Juggles Multiple Projects/Events Quip Master People Oriented Creative Seeks Harmony Life of the Party More Starts than Finishes Argues Both Sides of the Point to Learn Brinksmanship Tests the Limits Enthusiastic New Ideas ESTJ: MOST HARD CHARGING Life s Administrators ESFJ: MOST HARMONIZING Host and Hostess of the World ENFJ: MOST PERSUASIVE Smooth Talking Persuader ENTJ: MOST COMMANDING Life s Natural Leaders Order and Structure Sociable Opinionated Results Driven Producer Traditional Gracious Good Interpersonal Skills Thoughtful Appropriate Eager to Please Charismatic Compassionate Possibilities for People Ignores the Unpleasant Idealistic Visionary Gregarious Argumentative Systems Planners Take Charge Low Tolerance for Incompetency 27

28 Super Power Worksheet Activity What do I do that is successful for me? INFP Strengths 1. Seeks Inner Order/Peace 2. Creative 3. Non-Directive Harry Potter s Luna Lovegood 28

29 If I have more than 3 strengths? Read the Type Blocks around your first pick INFJ Linguistically Gifted Creative Quietly Caring Harry Potter s Professor Remus Lupin 29

30 David Keirsey Different Drums, Different Drummers If I do not want what you want, please try not to tell me that my want is wrong. Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view. Or if my emotion is less than yours, or more, given the same circumstances, try not to ask me to feel more strongly or weakly. 30

31 David Keirsey Different Drums, Different Drummers Or yet if I act, or fail to act, in the manner of your design for action, let me be. I do not, for the moment at least, ask you to understand me. That will come only when you are willing to give up changing me into a copy of you. David Keirsey- Please Understand Me 31

32 My Super Power Profile Type: INFP Confidence Nervousness Type Strengths: 1.Creative 2. Non-Directive 3. Seeks Order/Inner Peace Temperament: (What is my consistent nature?) Role: (What Position do you play in groups, in life?) Specialty: (Your chosen expression of knowledge or skill) Super Power: Purpose: Method: Power Statement: I AM Confidence Nervousness 32

33 Keirsey Temperament 33

34 Keirsey Role and Variation (Specialty): Guardian Role: Administrator Variants: ESTJ Supervisor ISTJ Inspector Role: Conservator Variants: ESFJ Provider ISFJ Protector Idealist Role: Mentor Variants: ENFJ Teacher INFJ Counselor Role: Advocate Variants: ENFP Champion INFP Healer Artisan Role: Operator Variants: ESTP Promoter ISTP Crafter Role: Entertainer Variants: ESFP Performer ISFP Composer Rational Role: Coordinator Variants: ENTJ Fieldmarshal INTJ Mastermind Role: Engineer Variants: ENTP Inventor INTP Architect 34

35 My Super Power Profile Type: (Your 4 Letter Personality Type) INFP Confidence Nervousness Type Strengths: 1.Creative 2. Non-Directive 3. Seeks Order/Inner Peace Temperament: Idealist Role: Advocate Specialty: Healer Super Power: (What I do so well it seems effortless and others recognize it as me) Purpose: Method: Power Statement: I AM Confidence Nervousness 35

36 But I Don t Have a Super Power What are you doing when you are: in the flow time flies calmly excited? 36

37 Define Your Super Power What I do so well it seems effortless and others recognize it as me. (If it rings true, it s not bragging!) Jen s Super Power is: Synchronizing with Others for Mutual Benefit (Check the Kroeger Strengths Grid for ideas) 37

38 Super Power Ingredients TYPE: ISTJ TEMPERAMENT: Guardian ROLE: Administrator SPECIALTY: Inspector Expression of Strength: Designs procedures, ensures training, keeps the organization running. Provides realistic process analysis, problem solving, and monitors the details for accuracy. Ensures rules are maintained and followed. ISTJ SUPER POWER: Consistent, Detailed Problem-Solving that Gets It Done Right the First Time 38

39 My Super Power Profile Type: INFP Confidence Nervousness Type Strengths: 1.Creative 2. Non-Directive 3. Seeks Order/Inner Peace Temperament: Idealist Role: Advocate Specialty: Healer Super Power: Synchronizing with Others for Mutual Benefit Purpose: (What are my super powers for?) Method: Power Statement: I AM Confidence Nervousness 39

40 My Purpose (Why Am I Here?) What are you here to do? How do you serve? What do you think your Super Powers are for? To help others see the unique value they bring to the world and deliver it bravely. 40

41 My Super Power Profile Type: INFP Confidence Nervousness Type Strengths: 1.Creative 2. Non-Directive 3. Seeks Order/Inner Peace Temperament: Idealist Role: Advocate Specialty: Healer Super Power: Synchronizing with Others for Mutual Benefit Purpose: Helping Super Heroes Remember Their Super Powers Method: (How I Do What I Do, With Whom, Where?) Power Statement: I AM Confidence Nervousness 41

42 My Method (Super Power Applied) Where do you wield your Super Powers? What s your work? Whom do you assist? 42

43 My Super Power Profile Hello I Am Confidence Nervousness Personality Type: _INFP Temperament: Idealist Role: Advocate Specialty: Healer Type Strengths: 1.Creative 2. Non-Directive 3. Seeks Order/Inner Peace Super Power: Synchronizing with Others for Mutual Benefit Purpose: Helping Super Heroes Remember Their Super Powers Method: Guiding and Training People Back to Work and Functioning Power Statement: (Starts with I AM, Claims My Strength, Declares My Intention, Conveys My Impact) Confidence Nervousness 43

44 More Powerful Than We Realize Claim Your Power! Define Your Power Statement A succinct phrase that shows your impact and highlights your super power(s). Starts with I AM I am a defender of free will, logically supporting brave choices Duh! Merida 16 year old ESTP 44

45 Create Your Super Power Profile Type: Your Personality Type Type Strengths: Your successful skills Temperament: What is my consistent nature Role: What position I play in groups, in life Specialty: My expressed area of knowledge/skill 45

46 Create Your Super Power Profile Super Power: What you do so well it is effortless Purpose: What are my super powers for Method: How I do what I do, with whom, where Power Statement: Starts with I AM, claims my strength, declares my intention, conveys my impact 46

47 My Super Power Profile Hello I Am: Jennifer Fields Confidence Nervousness Personality Type: INFP Type Strengths: 1,2,3 Temperament: Idealist 1. Creative Role: Advocate 2. Non-Directive Specialty: Healer 3. Seeks Order/Inner Peace Super Power: Synchronizing with Others for Mutual Benefit Purpose: Helping Super Heroes Remember Their Super Powers Method: Guiding and Training People Back to Work and Functioning Super Power Statement: I am the Word Wizard, Wisdom Weaver, Working Career Magic. 47

48 My Super Power Profile Hello I Am Jen Fields Confidence 3 Nervousness 4 Personality Type: INFP Type Strengths: 1,2,3 Temperament: Idealist Role: Advocate Specialty: Healer 1.Creative 2. Non-Directive 3. Seeks Order/Inner Peace Super Power: Synchronizing with Others for Mutual Benefit Purpose: Helping Super Heroes Remember Their Super Powers Method: Guiding and Training People Back to Work and Functioning Power Statement: I am the Word Wizard, Wisdom Weaver, Working Career Magic. Confidence Nervousness 48

49 Super Power Worksheet Activity Just Say Hello, I am. 49

50 Super Power to SUCCESS! Amy Cuddy: Fake it until you become it. 50

51 You ve Got The Power! 51