The Hidden Secretes Your Spouse Doesn t Want You to Know About Divorce

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1 The Hidden Secretes Your Spouse Doesn t Want You to Know About Divorce WARNING: If You Haven t Been Living In a Stressful Marriage For More Than a Year and Are Considering Divorce..Don t Do Anything Until You Read This Informative Special Report.

2 Inside This Special Report You Will Discover How To Protect Your Legal Rights! Dear Friend. Thank you for ordering my Special Report where I will expose many shocking "myths and misconceptions regarding divorce. I wrote this Special Report in everyday language without all the legal terms so anyone who ordered this informative Special Report could easily understand. If you are now living in a stressful relationship with your spouse creating a negative environment for you, and your children uncertain what to do, and thinking of filing for a divorce you are probably worried about what steps to take next. Here are some of the most common concerns most people have when facing divorce: l. I want custody of my children, but I have got to move out now, what should I do? 2. How do you tell your spouse it's finally over? 3. Should I leave my home or stay until the divorce is final? 4. How do I protect my custodial rights, property, and financial rights in the aftermath of a bitter separation? 5. What if my spouse won't agree to sign divorce papers? 6. How will I know that the lawyer I have chosen to represent my interest is the right lawyer for me and will know what to do? 7. Since there are so many lawyers to choose from how will I know if I those I choose is competent? If you have any of these concerns, then please keep reading this Special Report in its entirety because it just might have the answers you have been looking for. My name is Derek L. Hall; I have worked diligently helping people in our community as a lawyer for more than 15 years. I have looked at the challenges faced by unhappy couples that have tried everything to hold on to their marriages, and are tired of living a stressful, unhappy life. It's unfortunate, but many couples end up in divorce for lots of different reasons. So, our firm focuses in doing all we can to ease the stress, and pain in people's lives. In fact, this process doesn't have to be long drawn-out and painful one, if you follow the easy steps that I'm going to outline here for you here in my Special Report. Unfortunately, I see way too many people misinformed about their legal options during the separation and divorce process. I have seen honest, hard working, unsuspecting people get taken advantage of by not knowing what they could have done to protect themselves properly. That's why I've taken the time to write this Special Report and offer it for FREE without any obligation whatsoever to anyone who asks for it. I have heard way too many horror stories of people losing everything they worked SO hard to build over the years all wiped away by an ugly, bitter divorce simply because

3 they didn't know what to do to protect their legal rights. In fact, there are key secrets to protect what's rightfully yours that I reveal inside this Special Report. Every year I hear of many cases where ex-wives or ex-husbands were entitled to receive a fair matrimonial settlement of the property and custodial rights of the children only to find out that by not taking the appropriate steps they lost more than they really should have. These days, you better pay close attention and get the "right" information before you speak to anyone or sign any legal document. That's why I recommend that you DON'T talk to anyone (including close friends or family members) about your situation until you have read this Special Report. Even though they might have your best interest in mind they don't know the law. It's hard enough just to make ends meet these days and adding an ugly, bitter, long drawn out court battle to the mix can really make life a living hell. If you have been contemplating the idea of filing for a divorce, and are scared of the future consequences there are some important facts your spouse's doesn't want you to know. Take for example Joe (not his real name), who was a few months away from retirement and whose children had moved away. Joe had worked hard all his life and had managed to invest well and had always contributed to his company retirement. Joe s wife became convinced he was having an affair, slapped him with divorce papers, changed all the locks on the house and obtained an order preventing him from coming onto the property. She took his cars and wouldn t allow him in the house to even get his medication. In her divorce filing, Joe s spouse wanted him to pay for everything, give up 75% of his retirement, give up the property and pay alimony for the rest of his life. Joe found himself out on the curb with nowhere to go and unable to even go back home to obtain his medication. Joe was confused. He had always tried to do the right thing and now, in the twilight of his life, he was about to lose everything and be forced to continue to work to pay for his wife s lifestyle. Joe came to me totally devastated and wondering where to turn. His wife had charged up a lot of money on credit cards and he was in a budget crunch. My firm analyzed his case, reviewed the evidence, did some research and investigation of his spouse. We showed that Joe was not unfaithful and that his spouse was totally unjustified in her claims against him. We were able to obtain a just divorce for Joe, without the necessity of him going back into the work force, or suffering a financially devastating blow. Joe is back enjoying his life again. Jane (not her real name), another client of mine had a situation where she was accused of being an unfit mother. Her ex didn t like her lifestyle, didn t like paying child

4 support and tried to use his financial ability to gain full custody of their children and prevent Jane from even having contact with them. Jane was a hard working mother. She had an education degree, ran her own small business and home schooled her children. She had few resources and was very frightened when she visited my office. Her main focus had always been her children. Through investigating the case, we were able to show that the father was looking to get out of paying any child support, had a very expensive hobby that was costing him a lot of money and he saw her financial position as one he could take advantage of in order to stop paying support. We showed the court that her children were testing among the top for their age groups, were well adjusted psychologically and that, while she did not always have money to buy the latest toy or designer jeans, the children were well fed, healthy and enjoyed playtime on the farm with their friends. In this case, it was in the best interest of the children to remain with Jane. WARNING!!! If You Think You Are Going To Get In a Divorce And Want Custody Of your Children Read This... Some judges might hold your move from your children's house against YOU!!! Be careful! Don't let a short-tern goal interfere with what you really want. Make sure that even though you are moving out, your spouse understands that you are not giving up the right to property. Many spouses, out of guilt, give the other so much money that they have to move into a single room apartment where they can not bring their children to visit. Don't become one of them. Ask your attorney to protect you as vigorously as possible though a legally binding temporary agreement. No Miracles...Just Hard WORK!!! Now, I didn't work any special miracle on these cases, I just did my job as a lawyer. I did the hard work that was necessary to help my clients. I investigated their cases, hired necessary expert witnesses, interviewed the situations, examined records, documented, and verified their claims. I knew the law, followed the proper procedures holding onto my ground tooth and nail for my clients. With my years of legal experience, I was able to analyze their situation, recommend the best course of action and obtain a just result. The tragedy in all of this is there are many people out there just like Joe and Jane who never get a second chance to fully understand their legal options. Until NOW! You

5 see, every year hundreds if not thousands of people jump into getting divorced or tner into a custody arrangement without fully understanding the legal process. That's why I've dedicated myself to educating my clients as to what steps are necessary to protect their legal rights. The Fact Is There's A Lot More On The Line When It Comes To Getting Divorced Than You Think!!! NOTICE: BY LAW I MUST INFORM YOU THAT: PAST RESULTS ACHIEVED ARE NOT A GUARANTEE OF PUTURE RESULTS. EACH CASE IS UNlQUE AND REFERENCE MUST BE MADE TO THE SPECIFIC LEGAL AND FACTUAL CIRCUMSTANCES PRESENTED IN EACH CASE. Are You Counting On Your Spouse To Tell You The Truth? 'The harsh reality is that your spouse will often try to force you into accepting an unfair divorce settlement than you truly deserve. When it comes to getting divorced it could get very ugly in a hurry if you don't protect your interests FIRST! Your spouse's attorney also knows this and he/she is in business to make sure his/her client gets the maximum amount of money, property, and child custody. So, it's important that you protect your interest as soon as possible by reading what I have to say. Please don't let this come as a complete surprise to you, but there's a strong possibility that your spouse my already be planning a divorce (if he or she hasn't already served you with divorce papers). Here Are Some Toll Tell Signs That Divorce Papers May Be In The Cards For You: 1) Has your spouse been fishing around for information? 2) Has your spouse asked a lot of questions regarding your finances? 3) Has your spouse been out late at night? 4) Do you know for a fact that your spouse has been lying to you? 5) Has your spouse been acting kind of funny when he/she asks you these questions? Please, don't let this happen to you! Protect yourself by learning the Laws regarding divorce, separation and custody. If you want peace of mind in your marital status it's certainly preferable to be educated about your rights. As always, stay involved with your children. With a major disruption imminent, your children will need the reassurance of your extra attention. Fear of abandonment by

6 one or both parents is the number one reaction of children faced with divorcing parents. Do not put your children in the middle of your spouse and your differences. On the legal front, the more involved you are with your kids now, the greater chances you have to stay involved-by court order, if necessary. (WARNING: THESE ARE GENERAL STATEMENTS. THERE ARE MANY EXCEPTIONSAND YOU SHOULD CONSULT ANATTORNEY CONCERNING YOUR PARTICULARDIVORCE CLAIM AND THE APPLICABLE STATUTES AND ANY AVAILABLE EXCEPTIONS.) How To Interview and Retain The Right Divorce Lawyer For You? I want you to know that if you're seriously considering the option of divorce, then you need to know how to hire the right lawyer for your legal needs. Whatever you do, make sure NOT to hire a lawyer based on the notion of how that lawyer might relate to your spouse. You might think it's important for the lawyer to be able to stand up to your spouse. The truth of the matter is, the lawyer might not ever speak to your spouse, only deal with his or her attorney. Thus, the way your lawyer gets along with your spouse's lawyer is the real sticking point. So, don't worry about your spouse's opinion of your lawyer because it really doesn't matter! What Do You Need To Know Before Retaining A Divorce Lawyer? -How many matrimonial cases has this lawyer handled in the past? -How many of these cases involved custody issues? (Such as support, large financial settlements or whatever issues you feel suits your situation.) -Where did you go to law school? (Make sure not to ask if the diploma is staring you in the face.) -Do you know my husband (or wife)? -Do you know his or her attorney? -Do you have the time to take on a new case right now? (WARNING: CHANGES IN THE LAW CONCERNING DIVORCE AND FAMILY LAW OCCURFREQUENTLY. YOU SHOULD CONSULT WITHAN ATTORNEY WITH RESPECT TO THESE CHANGES.) Where Do We Go From Here? THE MOST IMPORTANT SECRET YOU NEED TO KNOW IN ORDER TO AVOID BEING RIPPED OFF IN DIVORCE COURT IS TO HIRE THE MOST COMPETENT, AGGRESSIVE, STRONG WILLED, AND SAVVY ATTORNEY YOU CAN FIND!

7 How will you know the lawyer you have is going to be the most competent, aggressive, strong willed, and savvy attorney you can find? Myths and Misconceptions Everyone Should Know Before Retaining A Divorce Lawyer... If you're seriously thinking of getting a divorce you only get one chance to get the right settlement you deserve. One of the most important decisions you will make that will affect you the most after your divorce will be the lawyer you choose to take on this task That's why I'm going to expose some of the most common myths about divorce lawyers. That way, you can have a better chance at making an informed decision that's right for you. I know I'm going to get some flack for this, but if I can help just one person with this critical information then I will have achieved my goal. MYTH #1: Every Attorney Has About The Same Amount Of Training and Experience The truth of the matter is that experience and training differ greatly from attorney to attorney. Some attorneys may have years of experience drafting wills or shuffling papers in real estate transactions. Why would you want that kind of attorney representing you in a divorce case? I mean, wouldn't you agree, that if you're getting a divorce you don't want some paper-pusher on your side! The lawyer you hire for your divorce should have a "proven" track record of being able to negotiate these critical life -changing matters properly and if the negotiation process fails they should be able to take your case to court and try it to conclusion. Only an experienced attomey can give you the peace of mind knowing you have given yourself the best possible chance of winning your case. Please don't be bashful by asking these tough questions; "How many cases have you taken to court? How many have you won? How many years of experience do you have as a trial lawyer?" These are the kinds of questions you better ask any lawyer you meet with before you make up your mind. The legal profession is like any other profession when it comes to experience. Every professional needs experience. Why let someone gain experience on your dime? When you need help, make sure it is the best help available so you get the most benefit from it. Let the inexperienced lawyer experiment with someone else's life-not YOURS!

8 MYTH #2: If a Lawyer Is On TV, He or She Must Be Good. Just because a lawyer appears on TV commercials, this doesn't necessarily qualify them to handle divorce cases. Amazingly, some lawyers who advertise on TV don't even appear on the commercial themselves but hire paid actors. If you do talk to a lawyer who advertises on TV, then ask him or her very same questions you would any lawyer, "How many matrimonial cases have you taken to trial trial? How many have you won? How many years of experience as a family lawyer do you have?" If all a lawyer had to offer was a slick TV ad, do you want to trust one of the most important life changing decisions be based on a slick TV commercial? MYTH #3: All Lawyers are Skilled in the Art of Negotiations. What you really want to do is avoid going to trial at all cost, if possible. First of all, it'll cost you a lot more and secondly, it will draw out the divorce process making it last longer than it should. Next, what you want to know is how many divorce cases actually go to trial? 'The truth is attorneys who have gone to trial way too many times might not be a good negotiator. (So, make sure to keep that in mind. especially when the lawyer hasn t been in practice too long.) The truth is you want to settle these types of cases out of court because if it does end up in trial you may need to hire expert witnesses, which cost money. If you don't have a lawyer who knows the fine "art" of negotiation, your legal bill could be enormous. MYTH #4 All Lawyers are Personally Involved in the Cases They Handle. Unfortunately, this is not true. Some lawyers have so many cases they hardly ever look at the file and talk to clients! Just try to get one of those busy law firms to return your phone call, let alone a quick call from his or her paralegals. These law firms are what we refer to in the profession as "mills," ''factories'' or "assembly lines. These lawyers hire paralegals to do the majority of their paperwork. Look, here's the bottom line, no matter bow big or small your divorce case is it's important to YOU! You need to have a lawyer on your side that is 100% committed to providing quality legal service, representation, and above all pay close attention to every detail. You need to know that your lawyer is personally involved in the preparation, evaluation, and resolution of your divorce. A lawyer who will treat your case with the utmost importance it truly deserves.

9 I hate to admit it, but inexperienced lawyers hurt their clients all the time. They don't file the correct paperwork; they miss critical deadlines, and most importantly don't know how to properly research their client's case. Even worse, many lawyers have never taken a case to trial, and so they don't know what their client's divorce settlement should be. If what I have said so far has made sense... Here's What I Have To Offer... If this Special Report has made the least bit of sense to you then you probably have a few questions, since you may be uncertain about whether you have a valid reason to file a divorce against your spouse. So, I'm offering a FREE, one-hour consultation divorce or custody audit to review your case. Please call me while this report is still fresh on your mind. I will set aside one full hour of my time to meet with you at no cost or obligation whatsoever! This consultation will allow you to protect your legal rights, and maximize your divorce and/or custody settlement. You will be able to get all of your questions answered and go forward with confidence knowing you have peace of mind. Here's How It Works: First, I'll review the facts of your case with you; ask you questions reviewing your options with you. Then, when I have a clear understanding of what has happened I'll give you my opinion about your case, including your chances of winning and any problems I may see. Since every case is different, I'll tell you what I think is the best course of action for you under your specific circumstances. I will also explain your legal rights and obligations. I'll tell you what papers need to be filed and what documents need to be written up. I will also explain the entire divorce process to you in an easy to understand way, so you will know exactly what happens from start to finish. If the facts are in dispute, I'll tell you what can be done to prove your side. I'll also tell you how to protect yourself from damaging your case before your divorce is finalized. Divorces can be tricky if you don't know what pitfalls to watch out for. Some lawyers may miss little things that can make a big difference to there clients. The biggest divorce settlements often go to those who avoid pitfalls during the divorce process by doing the little things right. I'll give you important keys to maximizing your divorce settlement so that you get every penny you deserve and maintain the relationship with your children that you are legally entitled to. I will also answer all of your questions and concerns. This way, you will understand exactly where you stand with your divorce. As a result of this consultation audit, you'll know what to expect in the coming weeks and months. You will have the information you need to be able to make an informed choice regarding your children, personal, property, and divorce settlement (alimony). You'll leave my office more knowledgeable and confident about the future,

10 which will give you peace of mind during this difficult time in your life. I want you to know my staff, associated attorneys and myself are here to help support you during this difficult process. Of course, I'll also discuss my services with you. I will tell you what I can do for you, should you decide to hire me and I will explain how the fees work. I am willing to answer any question you may have about my professional background and legal experience, including the number of cases I have taken to trial in front of "live" juries. The Value of This Personal Consultation and Divorce/Custody Audit Exceeds $ This audit consultation can save or make you thousands of dollars in a higher settlement, cause fewer problems and less aggravation and give you peace of mind moving ahead with your life. Make sure you call for your FREE FULL HOUR consultation audit, or if you would prefer to set up an appointment via , please send your requested appointment time to info@dlhattorneys.com and we will do our best to accommodate your request. Again the consultation is 100% FREE and without obligation. There will be no one to pressure you. I treat everyone with the same respect and courtesy I expect in return. You will get a FREE confidential case audit and the opportunity to learn your rights, remedies and options available to you. I will tell you the pros and cons of the options available to you. It's my sincere hope that during this interview, I can help you find a way to put you at ease and help you feel better about your decision. My Personal Guarantee To You! This is my personal guarantee of commitment to you. I will invest my time, my resources and abilities into your case. I will do everything I can to help bring your divorce settlement to a close as fast as possible so you can move on with your life. Since divorce and custody cases are some of the most emotionally charged court battles, I want you to understand that I know what you're going through. That way, you can start sleeping better at night again. Our office is conveniently located. What this means to you is you don't have to inconvenience yourself by fighting downtown traffic or paying for parking and you can get your case started immediately. The Worst Thing You Can Do Is What Way Too Many People Do - Delay Or Do Nothing Until It s Too Late! Unfortunately way too many people have told me they wished they had acted sooner before important witnesses moved and could no longer be found, before their spouse removed vital evidence that proved fatal to their case. I have encountered many people who decided to stay married because of one reason or another. However, to find

11 themselves years later wishing they would have moved on with their/lives. It's unfortunate but TRUE! Please don't let this happen to you. If you're in a situation where you don't know what to do next and you can't seem to figure things out, then that's more of a reason to call my office. I understand that you have a lot of concerns on your mind because this is a life changing decision. However, not doing anything at all won't change your situation. To Take Advantage Of My FREE No Obligation Offer, just Call (601) For An Immediate Appointment. When you call the office, please ask to speak with my assistant, Lori" to arrange a one-on-one consultation with me for one full hour to discuss your situation at no charge. I will be happy to answer all your questions, give you the benefit of an objective analysis and then, it's up to you to decide what you want to do. Even after that, you are under no obligation to use me as your divorce or custody attorney. I sincerely hope that I have made this as easy as possible for you. Thanks again for downloading this Special Report; I look forward to hearing from you soon! Yours truly, Derek L. Hall Derek L. Hall, PLLC Dedicated to Fighting Tooth and Nail for YOUR Rights! P.S. Remember, I'm here to help you in any way I can, but I can't help you unless you call me first. I want you to know that I've dedicated my entire practice to helping each and every client by offering them the information they need in order to make an informed choice regarding their life decisions. Because the truth of the matter is there's nothing to be embarrassed or feel like a failure because you tried to make your marriage work yet it still did not work out. I want you to know that I completely understand how difficult of a decision this may be. That this unhappy period in your life is simply a temporary situation that can be resolved once and for all once you get all the information you need to make an informed choice. P.PS. One last thing, what's the worst thing that can happen to you if you come in to see me during your FREE consultation?

12 Your spouse will throw you out of your home? You will lose your rights to see your children? You will lose your rights to your property? You will lose the right to your share of the retirement earnings? NO, these are all the things that could happen by not calling my office to schedule a FREE audit consultation. I have seen these things happen in the past to unsuspecting, hard working people who didn t know how to protect there rights. At worse you will find out that I can't help you and you will leave in the same situation that came to my office with. At best, we will find that I CAN help you, and you'll finally be able to get your life back. To Schedule an Appointment Now, Call , or click here info@dlhattorneys.com. Your information will remain confidential. Derek L. Hall, PLLC Attorneys at Law 1911 Dunbarton Drive Jackson, MS Ph Fax info@dlhattorneys.com **Background information provided upon request. Mississippi does not certify lawyers as specialist in areas of practice.